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Why is it that married men want to have a another women on the side for sex .?

married men state that there wife is not giving up the sex.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    because men are hunters and by nature like to gather women together to guarantee his bloodline will remain. Observe almost anywhere in the animal world and you will see the same. The dominate male will service as many of the females of that species as he can. Human males are no different...we are just supposed to be monogamous...which we aren't.

  • 1 decade ago

    Why A Married Men Cheat Because They Think That if They Are Not Happy At Home They Think Should Go Some Where Else To Get It And Then They Think Its Ok To Do It

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe, the married men should step into the shoes of the wife for a week or so and take over all the responsibilities that go with it, and see how sexy they feel at the end of the day.

  • Kaye B
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Because the wife is busy with the kids and working 24 / 7 he thinks he isn't wanted instead of looking in the marriage to help they look outside the marriage thinking the grass is greener it is the same or worse, Men are usually thinking of there own ego (some cases women).Instead of sitting back and appreciate what he has, he is thinking of how to get more sex. I know of a man in his fifty's looking at a young girl wanting to his wife to be like that he forgot about the 6 kids they had together and looking at him self as well.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I guess they will give the other woman all kinds of reasons, why they need sex outside the home, and I guess they will all make it sound like they have a right.

    But, I think besides them thinking they can get away with it, and it's their right as men to do what ever they want, the main reason is that they do not love their wives enough. If you truly love the other person, you will not stray, even if she is lousy in the bedroom. So bottom line is, not enough love and respect at home for the wives and whether their wives have love and respect for them is another story.

  • pumper
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Men are always looking for the next best thing. Or in our case what makes us feel good in the moment. Men get bored real easily. How many times have you tried talking to yoyur husband when a game is on and get little response? Nothing huh? Men get caught up in other women cause of how they make them feel. Men get so complacent in their marriage that when another women comes along and makes them feel excited, they get caught up in her and want to discover more about her. Remember how it was when you first met your husband? He probably was excited and had butterflies in his stomach. Thats how he probably feels with this other women. Shes exciting and your boring. Dont ask me why, but it goes back to the question I asked earlier. Our attention spans are low. Right now you have nothing exciting to offer and she does.

  • 1 decade ago

    That is a major generalization.

    I know as many women that have strayed from their partners as I do men.

    There are many reasons for this happening. It may be that there is something lacking in their relationship. Lack of sex life, self-esteem issues, boredom, sex addiction... So many reasons.

    There are also the men out there who could never cheat.

    If you always generalise like this, you start every relationship with trust issues. From what I have learnt, if you accuse someone of doing something enough, they end up doing it.... if you are going to constantly be in trouble for it, you might as well do the deed.

  • 1 decade ago

    Men think with the head between their legs and not the head between their shoulders. They don't care about nothing. They like having the fact of being in the running of the next STD AIDS victim!

  • 1 decade ago

    they might feel like their wife is not holding up her vows by withholding sex so they feel that it ok since the wife won't give it up then this is alright..no I'm saying its ok but a lot men feel that way they get married to legally have sex and when the wife repeatedly denies the husband he feels like she forfeits the marriage contract

  • Gent
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    For the same reason that so many married woman want to have another man "on the side" for sex. Because they can.

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