why do men always blame the ex gf / wives for the their break ups ?

I think both sexes do this equally. Usually, given enough time, the person can see where they messed up, too.

Wow it relatively isn't simple. subsequently they call it the EX, How do you already know your EX gf is telling you the actuality approximately her marriage? you have a wonderful spouse that has lost have faith in you from you EX gf. it is going to take it sluggish yet attempt to artwork it out along with your spouse. The EX gf does not advise you any sturdy now speaking approximately taking her own existence unreal. depart the EX Gf alones and tell her to seek for out for help. She has subject concerns and you do no longer want that style of drama simply by fact in case you probably did get together with her it won't artwork out simply by fact on your suggestions you will constantly have your spouse on your suggestions and in back of your head. So do your self a choose artwork it out along with your spouse and tell the EX gf which you're dropping all ties together with her. So what permit her say she is going to dedicate suicide and how do you already comprehend it relatively is genuine? looks like the gf has psychological subject concerns. permit it circulate and do the the desirable option element. Love the only which you're with.

I didn't know that that the Int'l Blame Committee on Failed Relationships completed their annual survey of ALL MEN and released the results already... I didn't think that was due out till mid January... hmmm interesting. I better contact my local chapter and see just whats going on here.

That same man... has an ex blaiming him for the breakup too. No one wants to admit fault. Men just do a better job at being loud about it... while women share their news through the proverbial grapevine.

I think that some men, as well as some women, do not want to admit their active role in breaking up a relationship. To limit it to men, as your question does, shows some deep down hostility toward men and a belief that you can do no wrong. Look in the mirror!

That's part of the reason their relationship didn't work out. They focused on what the other person was doing wrong instead of what they could do on their end to make things better. Blameshifting gets us no where. We need to learn to accept responsibility. Only then can we have hope to succeed and move forward..

Now, you really can't say that men ALWAYS blame their ex's. But the ones that do often are incapable of looking within themselves and taking responsibility for their own actions.

I think blaming others is what all human beings do. (It is always easier to put the blame on someone else rather than admit you screwed up.)

Not everyone is mature enough- or willing to accept- their share of the fiasco.

It's an easy cop-out. They don't ever want to admit it takes two to tango. It's a matter of pride and bravado.

Who else should we blame? The next gf?