why male hesitate off marriage and girls want to marry as soon as possible?

my husband and i waited because I wasnt ready. hes been ready for years.

this is my opinion...

male hesitate maybe because he's not ready financially, emotionally not at that stage yet, or not quite sure if "shes" the ONE, he's friends may not be married yet as well.

female wants to marry as soon as possible maybe because she's ready to settle with the man she loves, and not to miss that window of opportunity to start a family. females "time clock" does not last long and the chances of starting a family slims as females get older. also, females may also want the assurance that she belongs to someone and vice versa hence the ring on the left ring finger.

By nature, Biologically, girls should be marry as soon as possible as the age become older the body anatomly will reduce body function little by little while male not. Male hesitate to off marriage as their are gender with less of responsible to take burden off their shoulder and male usually like to take easy thing than heavy part..... Their are lazy gender than female. We all should know that becouse its a common knowledge.... Everyone know that. :). Taking about kids...... male don't like to take care of them and leave them to female as wife eventhough their are husband in a marriage and family. :).

Men just dont want a nightmare and want make sure they arent getting into one. press to hard and its assumed that will be the case.

nightmare = whatever aspects he knows that are very negative as possibilities resulting from marriage. There are a lot.

Women? god knows - Im not one, so cant comment realistically. I have ideas, but may be wrong.

It's unfair to generalize that way.

People in general are afraid of marriage because of fear of commitment and leaving the freedom that singlehood has.

People in general also want to marry because of anticipation of the supposed joys of marriage.. and of course, love.

Because men are smarter in manners of the heart. Women will do anything to keep a man close to her and once he marries her she feels she will have him forever. Many women go as far as getting pregnant to trap a man into being with her, which I think is despicable.

Every woman knows that upon marriage she is guaranteed:

- the state will ensure she is financially secure

- the state will force the husband to pay

- the society will badger the husband into compliance

In all cases, marriage is a bad deal for men.

Think of it as this:

Guys: Knows fully well of the responsibilities that will ensue along, despite a happy-go-lucky marriage. Emotions will never be enough to keep a strong family and matrimonial bond, as I presume you know parental responsibilities who run families.

Women: Oh my god, don't get me started. All I have to say is that for fems, they're too focused on their emotions that they do not consider of other "what-if" situations. Sure, they may have answers to those questions, but it's doubtful to believe that they can really uphold their claim.

maybe he wants to have a good time before being tied down. But girls too, by choice, do not want an early marriage. They too want to explore the boys and see who not to marry

Because women are uselles leeches by nature, and want and need men to take care of them.

men are secure... they don't need to be bound by a legal agreement

women want to marry due to a sense of need for belonging

FYI (first response): men and women are the same species