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What do I do when she tells me we're losing our spark?

She tells me we're losing our spark..it's the second time this happened.. What should I do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    ignore the people in here that are telling you that she is going to break up with u ...what she means is that there is no more excitement in your relationship ..what u need to do is intrigue her ...suprise her ..flirt with her ...you know in a new relationship how you always want to know more about the person and that weird feeling you get when the person is flirting with you or complimenting you or just making eye contact with you ...try recreating some of that ... compliment her ..blah blah whatever u need to say to get her to feel special .......good luck

  • 5 years ago

    It has gotten to the point the position he's gentle with you. yet curiously this is to gentle because he thinks he doesnt ought to inform you he loves and misses you anymore. i might want to tell him that you fee listening to those issues from him and that is reassurance that he feels a similar. in order to save the spark alive you both ought to commit. Dont get to lazy to the point the position you 2 are at the same time basically because. tell him that. He needs to appreciate the position you're coming from.

  • 1 decade ago

    It might be her way of easing into a break up. Especially if it is just her that feels that way and not you. A lot of times women will not be direct about breaking up and use an excuse like they need space, or they dont like your habits, but it all means the same thing, they want to break up and go out with someone else.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well,try to get it back as soos as you can...coz the next time,it's not just the 'spark ' that's gonna lose but you might lose her too......she your griend?..she's prob'ly feeling that your relationship is getting boring or you're not paying much attention as you used to be...

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  • 1 decade ago

    well brother, get ready for the grand slam. because she is letting you know that it is almost over. she is trying to break it to you very slowly , but she is in fact going to do it, yes she is going to get rid of you. all you can do is sit by and watch your life fall apart

  • 1 decade ago

    Is it you or her?

    If WE are then WE both need to make a conscious effort to try and get it back not you trying and her sitting back to see if you get it back.

    It takes 2 to make it work.

  • 1 decade ago

    Take her breath away again, like what you did. Surprise her :)

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