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My mom yells at my sisters all the time?
My mom yells at my sisters constantly (my sisters are 10 and 9) and sometimes she says things that she shouldn't be saying. How will that effect them in the future? Please just serious answers on here. Do you think it's going to mess them up in the future and make them hide things from my parents?
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- babydollLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
Your mom may or may not realize the extent of her fits of anger or may feel justified in them. Perhaps you could secretly record some of them. Keep a copy or two in a safe place (outside of home) in case you need to give it to a child protection agent or someone else. Give her a copy to listen to when she has calmed down a bit. If this does not work, then you can take further steps to protect yourself and your sisters by speaking to someone else.
- thenightscribeLv 41 decade ago
My mom did that to me and my siblings and my parents fought with one another...ferociously. There was always drama, fights, and agression in our home growing up. We're in our 40s now and yes, it affects you the rest of your life.
However, it affects each person differently. You cannot control your parents' behavior but you can control how you allow it to affect you. I grew into a very strong woman. When you get older, you will see your mother differently...as a flawed but very human woman who struggles like we all do and from what it sounds like...is depressed and very troubled about something. People generally do not abuse their children because they like being mean.
That doesn't excuse her, though, and although I'm not sure what she is saying to you or your siblings, it sounds like verbal abuse and you need to get another adult you trust involved...not only for your sakes but for your mom's, as well. It sounds like you all need some help.
Do you have a trusted teacher, family friend, pastor, etc.? Please tell someone.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
your family had an issues.You have to care of your sister and maybe becuse their something in the past that make your mom hate your sisters.You have to explain to them that it not there fault.Because my teacher told me that children that got beat up by parent mostly turn out to hate life.Your sisters still small you have to help them if your mom can't do thst.
- 1 decade ago
i don't know if its going to mess them up b/c i dont know what she says but in the future they will def. hide things from ur prnts