Do you have any "deep dark" secretes from someone very close to you?

I couldn't begin to feel the pain you have in your heart. For me it was a matter of losing my beautiful wife to breast cancer at an early age. Now I'm a widower. I had to make decision in my life that I never thought I would have to.

It was a matter of continuing to grieve over my loss or try and move on with my life. I'm originally from New Jersey. After my wife died I decided to change my life and move to Florida. It was the best thing I ever did. Don't get me wrong, it was extremely difficult but it was either change my life or slowly die.

You sound like your in a similar situation. You must change your life or slowly die. I'm guessing you and I are about the same age. If so, there is way too much life to live. So go and do it. Don't be unhappy anymore. Do it for yourself. Please!

It's probably not a secret to your husband. He may know how miserable you are and chooses to ignore it. You have a choice. You can go on like this for the rest of your life and die with a broken heart. Or-you can speak up and file for divorce. You can also set up a date with a family counsellor. If he wants to continue to be married to you, he'll go gladly. No one should have to live like you are right now.

Your dark secret (being passive-aggressive) will lead you to an even darker one...an affair, eventually....and that will be much worse. Why dont you just throw in the towel while you have your dignity left...instead of choosing to remain unhappy?

I'm not that close to anyone right now to have deep dark secrets.

yeah you should write it in a letter. when someone reads a letter they can't interrupt u unless they stop reading. you have to tell him u aren't happy. it's not healthy to sit there and be unhappy......

i also I'm the same positing you are now

write him a letter........or email him or something.......