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I'm still in love with my high school sweetheart!?

I'm not a kid! I've been married three times and currently married. I think I'm still in love with my high school sweetheart. I dream of her every night, really! We had a relationship a few years back but because we live in different states things didn't work out logistically. I seriously can't get her out of my mind!

What are your thoughts? I don't know what to do anymore!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I have been in this situation. It is so hard. However, you are married to someone else now. Fate has given you not one, but two chances to be with this woman and things have not worked out for you. See that as destiny's way of tellling you that you are not meant to be together. If you were 100% happy in your marriage, I can guarantee you would not give your high school sweetheart a second thought. Focus on your wife. Try to spark things up again. How would you feel if you knew your wife was secretly pining away for an old flame? Doesn't feel good, does it? Believe me, cause I've been in this exact situation. Time will heal. The past is in the past, let it stay there. There are reasons why people from your past don't always make it into your future.

  • 1 decade ago

    You will always love her she was your first love, Although you probably are not in love with her, there is a big difference.That's human nature, we always want what we can't have.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    get her out of your head! FORGET HER!!!!!!! your married you need to focus on your wife and if you have kids focus on them! FORGET THIS OTHER WOMAN!!!!!!!! your only asking for trouble if you look into it.

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