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Stopping bed wetting?
I love my wife very much. We have been through a lot together and we dated for seven years without ever sinning or sleeping together. She is my soulmate and she is the words to the song my heart has always sung. However, since we've been married I've noticed a very annoying habit with her.
She wets herself.
Not every night, but usually if we've had sex or if she drinks right before going to sleep.
I've tried to confront her nonchalantly about it, but she just brushes it off, saying it was a visit from the "Tinkle Fairy" and then she tries to kiss me. Often its all over my leg and i'm not in a kissing mood. We've never fought in all 7 years and I don't want this to be our first fight but its really disgusting and I'm getting tired of washing the sheets.
She really seems ok with this and the more I push it the angrier she gets.
Should I wait till she's asleep and wrap her up in plastic or slip a diaper on her?
Any help would be appreciated!!!
15 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
i think you should shame her. next time you two are out, loudly announce to your server or bartender that your wife may not have more than one beverage since she wets herself like a baby. call her work and leave a message with her boss for her. make sure you say something like..."mr. boss, please tell my wife that she is getting low on her depends". also, hang those sheets in the front yard. remember that movie that starred micheal landon??? he used to be a bed wetter and his mother would hang the sheets in the front yard....he would run home as fast as he could so the kids from school wouldn't see them. turned him into a track star. just think, this could make your wife a track star!!
- stothardLv 45 years ago
My son merely became 8 and nevertheless wets the mattress each and every now and then. It drives us the two loopy. each and every 3 hundred and sixty 5 days at his actual, I ask the Dr approximately it and that they continuously say its commonplace and could run its path! no longer very effective. in the advise time, what I easily have found out is to attempt and save him heat. He continuously pees whilst he's even slightly chilly at nighttime. somewhat, its a waiting recreation. My sister moist the mattress till at last she became into 12. i do no longer think of i will cope with it that long, no longer to show my son! i know my sister began utilising some nostril spray from the Dr that made her supply up wetting, possibly you may desire to ask your rfile.
- 1 decade ago
If you've been with her for that long, it shouldn't be a problem to sit down with her and talk to her about this. I also find it hard to believe you guys haven't fought in all seven years, but if that would be true, like you say, then this shouldn't EVEN be a reason for a fight. To me, it's like a medical problem, and you need to address it. Especially if she is peeing on you. That's just foul. And why are YOU washing the sheets...she's the one peeing the bed. Make her wash them. Sounds like she's in control of the relationship. And maybe I'm completely wrong, but you put your question on here, and this is just my opinion. Good Luck!!
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- 1 decade ago
I've had two bladder surgeries due to a bladder condition such as your spouses. But, my problem was very small leakage. She has a full blown accidant in bed? She is too lazy to get out of bed. If she is too embarrassed to see a doctor try to get her to to pilates and Keigel exercises. Keigel is tighting of the vagina. Same muscles for the bladder muscles. No offense but your wife sounds lazy and messy.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Explain to her that there is a medical condition that causes this and you would like for her to see a doctor to make sure she is ok. Your mattress is going to be ruined if you don't get this taken care of. Good luck.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You think you got it bad, I get visits from the wife's diarrhea fairy occasionally! Consider yourself lucky.
- slgraff✪✪Lv 41 decade ago
Well, if she sleeps in the tub its not a problem. Tubs are very roomy these days, so you can visit her with no complications!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
This isn't funny, she has a medical problem. I don't blame you for getting upset though. She really needs to go to her doctor b/c they have medicine for that. She needs to at least wear a brief if she isn't going to get medication. If the shoe were on the other foot she wouldn't want you to pee on her everynight.