friendship advice?

I have a great guy friend before. He was totally funny and nice and we talked a lot. After awhile, I started getting feelings for him but I never told him. Eventually he started trusting me more and he told me about a girl he liked. It really broke my heart to know he was interested in someone else but I wanted to keep the friendship in tact so I didn't tell him that I liked him. He moved last year but we still keep in touch and talk alot. I still wonder what would have happened if I told him, but I'm really happy with how it turned out. I would rather have a great friend then a boyfriend. If you feel like you need to tell her, then tell her. She may like you and she may turn you down, no matter what happens don't let it mess with your friendship. :)

I really hope this helped,

~ Jane.

You have a crush on your best friends girl and you think of her too much. It bothers you that he cheats on her because you imagine yourself never cheating on her and could treat her so much better. There has to be an attraction between you and this girl. You shouldn't have told her. It's best to stay out of it. Although, I'd sure want to know if someone was cheating on me. But in due time, he would get caught on his own. Because if he did it twice already, there would be a third time, and so on. If they split up it still wouldn't be cool to date this girl. Try to get her out of your head and try to find someone else.

Deep down, you probably became friends with her because of an attraction. This ALWAYS affects the friendship.

yes

u really like her that is y u r shy

to tell her u hat to pull her aside from everyone else and then talk to her but when u do be serious about it but not to serious because she would think u r a loser and don't be funny either

but do tell her ur feelings but not all of them

PS.(now she has a boy friend u may want to back down but like i said pull her aside and then talk to her)

It's the guessing that will do that. Just tell her how you feel. People aways assume the worst. Don't be like everyone els. Think positive and tell her your feelings. : )

Just continue to be her friend, and the friendship will grow and she will see how much you mean to her.

Well, right now, if she has a boyfriend, then back away...

And let time pass a little bit, and become closer with her.

i would give hints but on the other hand y'all are good Friends like me and my females good friends oe best friends would know alot bout each other cuz y'all chill alot but mistake it for ant more than that

stare her down until she laughs and says "he he ha what?"

bet her bf cant make her giggle!