How would you feel if the person you were seeing has sleepovers with opposite sex friends?

Either they are lieing and I wouldnt want them than, or they are telling the truth in which case they must not have much desire for sex and I wouldnt want that either.

I personally doubt that such a situation could exist at a purely platonic level. I just don't buy it. But assuming that was the case I'd have a problem with that. I wouldn't want to wedge myself between her and her close friend but I'm not going to date a girl who occasionally has another manfriend sleep with her. I mean what if the relationship got to a point where I might spend the night? Would we have to coordinate with sleep over guy so that there wasn't three of us in bed? I just wouldn't tolerate nonsense like that. I'd date someone else.

i do no longer agree that your daughter will inevitably have sex with this boy. do not get me incorrect i'm no longer naive adequate now to not imagine it is a threat even though it isn't inevitable both. My daughter is 16 too and she and that i have dicussed boyfriends and sex and birth control yet I enable or not it is commonplace that i do no longer approve of stripling sex. the following is a clean handle it. i discussed with her how teenage boys act with one yet another at the same time as they're mutually speaking about their sexual escapades. I have a 18 yo son so he ought to ensure all of it. I advised her that sex is large even though it must be interior the right context. it will be a private act between adults. I enable her recognize that she had a range of her sex lifestyles being a private, human being dignified area of her lifestyles at the same time as she is an human being on her own or the concern of a grimy shaggy dog tale advised by technique of boys in a locker room. I then became to my son and requested him if he ever heard his friends speaking about what they did with females, He pronounced, "for sure, its like a contest." So there you've it. it ought to no longer be morality that keeps those females on the straight away and narrow yet their delight and dignity. So do not enable every person inform you it is hopeless. Have a communication with her. She would marvel you. also, i imagine she has earned a number of her privledges back. in case you're taking care of her an identical climate she behaves or no longer she would imagine, "what's the version, i'd besides do what i opt for because i'm getting dealt with an identical regardless." i'd invite this boy over on your position and make him spend time with the total relatives. Get to understand him. Hell, invite his moms and dads over, get to understand them. Make him earn your trust. Have an straightforward talk with him and enable him recognize what your expectancies are and what the outcomes will be in the adventure that they don't look met. both of them would marvel you. yet although i'd tell your daughter that if she is amazingly wanting to have sex dispite all of your good suggestion, then she must be mature adequate to come back refer to you and also you may visit the overall practitioner mutually and get some birth control besides condoms. I did an identical with my daughter.

no way a male n a female sleeping in the same bed is just wrong especially if they not dating.dats y we opposite sexes for a reason.i wud neva b ok with dat its nonsense.

Really sweet babygirl i'm not LOL! Wellll maybe jus a lil'.

I find it a lil funny he'd even tell you that! does he think you're stupid? I would feel like if he feels like sleepin in someone

else's bed then"get outa MINE!. FOR GOOD!

Then I'd feel like I was makin progress in my life!

Depends who the girl is that is sleeping in the bed with him.

Sure it's OK...if his name is Dawson and his friend is Joey....no wait....we all know ho that one ended.

Just say "no" to sleepovers!

i really have to agree with the last post, or at least most of it anyways.

i wouldnt have it