is it rape?

I would go to the ER and have them check you out. That is the only way for sure you would know.

You pretty much already ruined your chances to find out.

Because you should have went to the hospital and gotten a Rape Kit done immediately.

By now you've showered away any evidence.

Hopefully they used condoms! Or else you need to make sure you're not pregnant.

Now you'll never know if you can trust that guy, so DON'T trust him. Next time drink Bottled Water unless you're only around people you know and trust not to drug your drink.

And IF YOU FEEL LIKE THIS HAPPENS AGAIN go to the Hospital and get a Rape Kit done! They cotton-swab your area down there, inside and out - and they can tell if there are cells on your body that don't belong to you.

Then you can have the b@stards arrested.

It may haunt you, to NEVER KNOW FOR SURE but you can protect yourself from ever feeling this way again.

Well firstly dont ever allow yourself to get to that point, never leave your life in someone elses hands. If it were rape they must be some sort of struggle, you cant tell the courts or anyone that because you are unsure, frankly you could've been willing at the time and you just cant recall what happened..I know its hard to deal with right now, but as a woman depend on yourself and never trust anyone, actually that applies to men too. You should go see a doctor and check on your body, see if everything is alright. And then maybe ask the guys if they know what happened. If they deny or blow you off i would go to authority.

Man this is a hard one, because it is your fault as well. No one pressured you to drink.

Good luck.

I dont know if you're serious or not. But I was molested when I was 13. He used to be on me when I'd wake up, or touching me when we were alone. Then things all weird. All I remember is seeing my cousin with an old friend from his gang give him a bunch of pills and say "oh yeah, theyre great, they dont remember anything." and then I dont remember like 3 whole months of my life from that point on. All I remembered were nightmares of things a virgin cannot possibly feel, and have a really bad infection down there for a long time.

If you're serious, get help. Today. Right now.

I'm pretty sure you were raped. first of all it's not a good idea to go to a party with just guys and not take anyone you can trust with you. secondly, are you old enough to be drinking and if so why drink to the point where you pass out. and last but not least you should've immediately went to the hospital or even contacted the police because in some way shape or form your were violated. hope everything works out for u

I don't know what happened while you were passed out, however if they did anything to you it would be considered rape you were unable to give consent to anything then.

Unfortunately if you have showered since last saturday any evidence that they did do something was washed down the sink. You can report it but it might be a very difficult case to prove. However if you do report it and questions come up about these guys again your report could help the next girl.

Please be very careful in the future and take care of yourself. Say no to the drinks. Protect yourself against being in this situation ever again.

good Luck

It could have been. Since it was several days ago the physical evidence would be gone since you have taken showers since then. I would still recommend you going to the ER to get physically examed to make sure there was no damage done to you. You also need to make a doctor's appointment to get tested for all STD's.

I am so sorry this happened to you, I hope you are able to gather enough evidence to press to charges against those guys. Stay the hell away from that guy because he is obviously not a friend.

YES! It was rape. It's not too late for you to have a rape test done. DO NOT DOUCHE OR BATHE YOUR PRIVATE PARTS AGAIN UNTIL AFTER THE DOCTOR SEES YOU. Tell your parents and get to the doctor IMMEDIATELY. The police have ways of making that boy tell what happened to you and the names of all the other guys. You would not be bleeding in the vaginal area unless it was time for your period or you were raped.

Your father and mother are going to be your strongest support so tell them what happened. That boy who took you to the party may have put a date rape drug in your drink. He is no friend.

It could have been....you should of went to the er...you can still even get checked out if you go now...they can check for tearing and things like that....but if they did rape you the hospital wouldn't be able to give you the morning after pill b/c it could be too late and you might end up pregnant....next time that happens get checked out.

go to the doctors n tell them u want to do a rape test but ur a women u should know if u had sex that night or not if it wasnt ur period than it could have been from guys being to rough with u some girls bleed after having rough sex hope this helps n i hope u werent raped

I'm going to assume that you've showered since then but if you haven't washed the clothes and underwear that you had on, put them in a paper bag and go see a doctor at the emergency room.

No one can know what happened to you but they can help. Good luck