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i keep getting a similar dream over and over?

its basically about me and my fiance every time. the only thing that changes is the setting. it starts out with us going somewhere or doing something and we're really happy, but some girl always comes along and i have to fight with her over my fiance and i never win. he always says something along the lines of 'i never really loved you, it was always her!' i know its only a dream and i know my fiance would never do anything like this, i'm just a little confused as to why i get these dreams. i seem to get them every 3 or 4 days.

does anyone else get the same kind of dreams?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It sounds like you're insecure about yourself. I notice that you say fiance, and not boyfriend, so there is a marriage being planned. That being the case, it could also be a reflection of fears of the future, and what it will bring, marriage is a big step for a couple to take, and sometimes planning a marriage will bring up fears over whether you have really made the right decision in a life partner as well.....If this is what is going on, then the dreams will probably pass once the wedding is over and you get settled in together....

    Source(s): "...will you still need me, will you still feed me, when I'm 64?"
  • 1 decade ago

    Hi, sure they do, people always have repetitive dreams, it's just whether or not we always remember them. Some would say that infact our dreams are more reality than a dream. But in your case, maybe you are going through some sort of tough patch with your fiance, don't stress. Talk the dream through with him, it's always best to talk - never keep your oppression within this is not a healthy state. You'll be fine. Honest!

  • 1 decade ago

    People express feelings through there dreams. Seems you obviously feeling very insecure that maybe one day he'll leave you? best thing to do is write this dream down and maybe talking with your fella about it and make a joke of it "your being silly" i used to get these dreams when i was with a new partner as my last partner was unfaithful but deep down in the back of your mind your worried he will do the same.

    Hope you eventually stop by my advice good luck x

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't believe that concepts have fixed meanings from one dreamer to the next. I believe it's dependent on the dreamer himself/herself. That is to say, concepts in dreams represent feelings you have. To interpret the concept, you must ask yourself what feelings those concepts evoke in you, and then figure out what, in real life, gives you that same feeling. THAT'S what the concept represents.

    In your example, you dream about being rejected by your fiance for someone else. This dream could be literal, or it could be symbolic. What feeling does that evoke in you? Fear? Trepidation? Worry? Confusion?

    If the dream is not literal, is there anything in your current life that is causing you that same exact feeling? Are you confused about a career path? Expecting to be rejected in some way by someone? Insecure about some project you've undertaken? Whatever is going on in your life right now that is causing you that same emotional turmoil or worry or insecurity is what the concepts in the dream represent.

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  • reg
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Dreams are a continuation of your waking thoughts. In your waking life you are experiencing security issues. You are insecure about something not necessarily about your relationship with your fiance. You are concerned that your happiness or contentment will be pre-empted by someone else laying a claim on it.

    Example, in your job, you may be concerned that a co-worker is gunning for your position or your responsibilities to make him/her look better in the eyes of your boss.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have never had this type of dream, but with dreams you should pay particular attention to the feeling that you are experiencing and not only the actual visual part.

    You might need to work on changing how you feel about yourself in the real world as your dream world is drawing your attention to possible insecure aspects relating to you and you fiance.

    Often we feel uneasy unnecessarily-Change any uneasy feelings you might have to cheery positive ones and you will eventually find that your dream feelings also change. Good luck and have fun.

  • 1 decade ago

    The dream is showing you your fears. Fear of someone never really loving you - it all being an act. Fear of losing in a fight over someone/something you really love. Remind yourself of times when you've been shown love and occasions when you have won at things, races anything and focus on these positives to help let go of the negatives.

  • lily
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    dreams often repeat like this until you get the message within them, this one looks as though you are unsure or insecure in the relationship, try to sort this and the dream should stop.

  • 1 decade ago

    Is your wedding date close? It could be pre-wedding jitters. If you would like to interpret your dream, I like to use (online) www.dreammoods.com.

    Also maybe talk to your finance about this. He could be having the jitters and is sending you subconscience signs.

    Good luck to you and congrats on the proposal.

    Take care.

  • 1 decade ago

    just keep telling people that you had the dream and it wont come true. (thats a myth by the way)

    ive had dreams like this before, but they arent reaccuring the same one. its just like when you have a new baby you sometimes dream about something happeneing to the baby. its just your heart aprehensions. just relax

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