Help..........!?

i feel that she has rightful hesitation issues.

Him leaving because things didn't go his way, waaaahhhh, once that kindof crap starts, he will feel he can do it over and over and keep coming back when he's ready.

Having a child doesn't meen marriage anymore...all the time. So, she's being cautious, thats the right move at this time.

I don't think they should ever get married!!! Why? Take an honest look at all the married couples you know are any of them still truly in love?!!??! NO and most of them are miserable why would you want that for your friend?!?!? Tell her to enjoy the love they have right now because that love is over once you get married!!!

Gosh.. why lead a sad life for been separated... how come the guy communicate with you better than his own girlfriend???

Some chemistry maybe...

Well if he hasn't been with another woman then probably just get married.

if she being you..i think you should go with your gut.

if she being someone else you should like butt out..maybe its your fault for butting in too much..you need to let her live her life..does she know you even post this?

she should get into counseling with the guy and make her decision based on how that helps their communication and other issues.

Never understod whose bf went away and returned then again asked for getting married,and who has got the child and whose is it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

if its not right now a piece of paper is not going to make any difference at all!!!!!!!!!