is this rude?

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is it rude to invite a guy over and then spend hours on the computer chatting with an ex or with some guy who is interested in her?  She says he is an idiot, and that she isnt interested in him anymore, and that she's not flirting, but I dont come over there to sit by myself watching tv or reading, I can do that at home alone easily enough.  Whether I should be jealous or worried about where our relationship is going is another question that Im not even going to ask here, I just want to know if it is rude or is my feeling neglected just me being immature or something.

Deja Vu · Accepted Answer

...its damn rude, drop the loser, and move on...find a woman that appreciates you for who you are!

Captain S · Answer

Yeah, that's rude. You're going to get stuck in the friendship zone like that, and that sucks. Next time she does that, just get up and bounce...tell her you'll check back with her when she's less busy. From then on, try not to be so accomodating with your schedule. She's full of herself and there's nothing you can do about that other than making sure you don't get caught up in the vanity fallout.

Kayla A · Answer

That is -incredibly- rude. I'd be slightly concerned that she'd go to the trouble to invite you over, yet totally ignore you once you're there. Maybe she's intentionally trying to make you jealous?

atlantagirl8199 · Answer

Yes, that is very rude.  What was the point of you being over there.  Why is she on the computer while you are over there anyways?  No offence, but maybe your boring her.  (sorry)

Itsa Secret · Answer

Of course it's rude!  One shouldn't ignore a guest ever!

? · Answer

SOOOOOOOOO rude! RUN! Sorry but the facts show obviously she is just not that into you.

Anonymous · Answer

yes it is VERY rude and no you are not being immature.

soccerplayer359 · Answer

a little rude.

ramboo · Answer

it is rude for me. how could someone be so insensitive.

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