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Anti-procreation?
If someone was raised by his or her biological family, but hasn't had a good experience with his/her family, does that mean this person is probably anti-procreation?
Cruzgirl,
You're right. The question was not whether or not it' okay to be an "anti-procreationist."
12 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
While it is difficult for me to follow such logic, I find that it is expressed frequently on this forum. Many times someone discusses negative feelings about being raised in their adoptive family and find they are immediately branded, “anti-adoption.” Using similar logic, the person you describe would have to be labeled, “anti-procreation.”
Amazing...I never realized how many anti-procreation people are running around this planet!
- morris the catLv 51 decade ago
No, there is no way of making that assumption. But if the person started espousing anti-procreation views and/or criticizing others who wanted to procreate than one could conclude, whether they had a happy childhood or not, that they were an "anti-procreationist"...
not that there's anything wrong with being an "anti-procreationist"
But that wasn't really the question was it? Interesting question.
ETA-Thank you Laurie (for clarifying). I think I should get a thumbs up for at least understanding the question :-)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I would not call it anti-procreation, I'd call it a psychological issue though. I was raised in a pretty negative environment and I didn't ever say I didn't want kids...I DID, however, use that experience to learn NOT how to raise a child.
- 1 decade ago
Nope.
I was raised by my biological family. I had a wonderful childhood and family experience.
I could be considered anti-procreation. But I prefer the term Non-Breeder.
I do not understand the desire to have a child. The idea of a crying, leaking, smelly larvae exiting any orifice of my body makes me shudder worse than a horror flick!
I do not want children. I do not want to be around children. I don't even enjoy looking at pictures of children. Or even hearing those stupid "my kid is so cute" stories!
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- littleJainaLv 41 decade ago
Often, yes, this does happen. People with abusive parents will often think they'd make horrible parents and won't breed. Also, I know many people who were "older siblings" in large families have a "bad experience" with biological familes and decide "procreation" is evil.
- H******Lv 71 decade ago
Yep that fits. It seems to be that people with 'alleged' or assumed bad adoption experiences are automatically labelled 'anti-adoption' LOL so this makes perfect sense.
Isn't it strange that bio children raised with their natural parents never get called 'anti-procreation' or told they should be grateful someone raised them, or they didn't end up in a dumpster or they should be grateful they weren't aborted lol lol people just love to say this to adoptees though, don't they
Source(s): American Adoptee in the UK - 1 decade ago
I like your logic! Just because someone speaks about their own adoption story and it isn't the rosy oh so wonderful, people label them anti-adoption. Just because they didn't have a positive adoption experince doesn't mean they are anti-adoption, they are just telling their story.
- 1 decade ago
Not really, everyone makes their own choices- people with very good homelives are anti, and there are ppl who have bad bad home lives that want to create better ones!
- 1 decade ago
OH BUT NO! My biological person was an evil person who was very violent w/me and older sister from INFANCY....I started running when I was four....Found my wonderfamily by the grace of GOD and would not change a thing! I have had 4 of my own; my first daught passed, son w/b 32 in Nov. daughters 25 & 26 going on 26 & 27..I love kids.....I love my 7 sisters and 1 brother and my momma and daddy are THE BEST!!!
Source(s): Carol G. Counselor/Med/Surg Exp - KerryLv 71 decade ago
No. I do not believe that we are the regimented products of our environment, but have the ability to make choices....