is it too much to ask?

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So I am at work and asked my spouse to stay sober till I got home so we could get it on! I am 5months pregnant and can't stand the smell of beer. He responds with I'll brush my teeth!why would it be so F*&king hard to just wait till after we got done! Now I am not even in the mood anymore.....why would he act like that?

ruby · Accepted Answer

Unless he is an alcoholic, I would guess that he is having some adjustment issues with the pregnancy and wanted to  avoid having to have sex.
  Some men have trouble seeing a pregnant woman as a sexual thing ( Madonna Complex ) or are afraid they might hurt the baby.
  Ask him to comfort you in a non-sexual way like a foot massage or back rub.  Give him some space to work out his anxieties.  Talk to him ( when he is not drinking ) about the pregnancy and your sex life.
  Good Luck.

Garylian · Answer

Probably because he took care of himself already.  Other then that, I have no idea.

Women act differently when it comes to sex and pregnancy.  My wife didn't want it at all, so when she offered, I was ready to go right away, and did whatever I had to do to help things along.

Personally, I don't get his actions.

xcalisunx · Answer

well im wondering if your husband might have a drinking problem. you are having a baby soon. he cant be doing that when you have the baby; there are too many responsibilities. and if he HAS to drink...well good luck with that one.

rockerr(: · Answer

well some guys r like that why dont u just tell him how u feel about it and then he's gonna stop
trust me it works

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