I'm having a really hard time getting over my break with my bf of three years, why is this so hard?

wow, that is a very long time. congratulations for being able to hold a relationship that long. I can't get one to last like 1 week! LOL but i'm sure if you've had a bf for 3 years, that you could easily get another one. I know that you probably loved him, and he meant the world to you, but if he is willing to let you go, then you need to be willing to let him go.

Well after 3 years, you should feel badly, no doubt. In time however, you will be fine, for time heals all wounds. Just a suggestion though, but keep yourself around positive minded people, your good friends, family, and do the things that make you smile and be happy. When a break up first occurs, depending on the situation, many dont go doing cartwheels. Just dont allow yourself to get so drawn into depression and making bad choices durign this time. Which is why I say positive minded people are what you need and a plus during this period. Good luck.

I know how u feel. It is freaking hard to get over a break up. But 3 years is a really long time. Look, just get over it. I dont really know wots the real reason of ur break up but just forget about him! There are other guys out there! :) Just find one and forget bout u ex. have fun and hang out with yer friends too.

Well, it's really hard to forget. Especially if you really did fall in love with him. I was also in the same problem, I liked someone but she told me that it would be better if we stayed friends. It has already been 3 years (coincidence?) yet I still can't forget about her. Try to forget by giving more priorities to your job or studies. It really is hard to forget or move on from a relationship, yet try to think that there are still other men out there for you that can make you forget all about him.

its hard because you guys have been together for whole 3 years, being with someone that long can really hurt when separated, he's the only person you've been with in 3 years and i guess you'll spend some really good qualitity time together, all of this can hurt when thinking about the good times you've share, try not to think about it

It is hard because of the deep desire and honesty of your feelings. I am 53 years old yet there are women who I still think of regularly going back to my 20's. You must continue your life and time will give you a better prospective. Good luck.

because that is a long time...and depending how serious u were it is hard because u pictured ur life one way and now u have to look at it in a whole new way..its scary..but as time goes on u will meet new ppl and after awhile the hurt will go away

end giving him intercourse. Then, in case you grasp that..and he retains attempting, tell him he shouldn't wanna be the rebound guy. you're nonetheless therapeutic from a 4 365 days relationship and you do no longer desire something intense suitable now. yet easily end giving him intercourse, he will stick around in case you do for sure..

How can it be other than hard? You used to be everyting for eachother, shared your like hith him. I've been there too, and I couldn't imagine my like without him. But I did had the courage to break up if it wasn't what I wanted anymore.. It is hard, and it is painfull.. but it will be ok. Trust that.

b/c for three years he has been part of your life and now hes not. ... just give it time. soon you will find someone new and new is good. That feeling of a new relationship. the not knowing the wanting. its all fun. have fun and chin up .it does get better.