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Is it wrong?
I knew a practicing Islamic school boy aged 16 worked in a local shop met school girl Catholic aged 17 first handed over change placing it on counter saying he was mut-min (sorry about spelling), next time she came in shop gave change in hand this time holding hand and smiling when no one was round then a few weeks later asked for her mobile number etc started meeting her after work and karate late at night and kissed her as he didnt won't anyone to know but some of his and her friends did - after couple 2 yrs they stopped chatting and meeting up til she and him saw each other at a local train station and they both broke into tears he watched her get on the train with out saying anything and she was watching him and speechless...
is it wrong or are they just being kids
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i am being 100% serious and I would swear on any book (bible, koran etc)
the only reason I think it is wrong due to the religious reasons and in any case i think it was wrong
with marriage I dont think they would have married him unless his parents accepted her coz they didn't accept her (I think he would have been shot by his parents coz they were quiet strict and mmm) even if she converted to Islam for Allah
7 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Ouch, kissing?
Kissing a woman is only allowed after you marry her in Islam.
Only allowed to the woman you marry.
If they love each other, then they should marry.
Love is not wrong, it makes people do wrong things if not watched carefully.
Lust is wrong, absolutely.
Marry out of love, not just to sleep with her.
Marriage is a pure thing, not to be made fun of.
Crying after you've met face to face after a long time is nothing wrong. I would have cried if I saw my old friend from Japan in a train station. I would have cried if I met my old friends in Mecca.
I would thank Allah S.W.T for that.
- TW KLv 71 decade ago
Wasn't any song rising from the stalls on the station!!!!
Was anyone crooning an aalaap there!!!
Background music would have completed the scene...
Loving and falling in love is not wrong! What wrong do you see in that? If he kissed the girl that was wrong but note that they haven't met since two years and perhaps the boy may have repented..... Having tears when you see someone loved after a long time is not wrong! its Human!
TW K
- 1 decade ago
They always said that opposites attract! They never mentioned opposites attract if the religion and culture were
suggested to be. Did you read in the paper about the couple
that she was arab and he was american and they beat the odds. What you are asking is very difficult, but I know that both of you will make the right choice.
Source(s): Talk with your clergymen!! - Anonymous1 decade ago
Weeell, yes it it wrong in Islam.
This is because they are both commiting zina which is a major sin. If he has fallen in love with her, then he can arrange to get married to her FIRST before touching or kissing her. And also it would be best for her to convert, though I am not sure on the ruling of muslim men marrying non muslim women. But what that muslim boy did was wrong & he should repent to Allah (swt) for forgiveness ~!
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- ?Lv 61 decade ago
Yes, it is. It is wrong to touch any part of the body of those you could marry (non muhrim), and it is also wrong to kiss them, unless they are married to each other.
- druid_gtfxLv 41 decade ago
sounds like the plot of a Bollywood romance...
i'm not sure what part of the story you're referring to as possibly 'wrong'..
