For my new family?

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Ok. I have been accepted as a part of my boyfriend's family, they even gave me his mother's engagement rings, and everybody wants us to get married, which is great. But right now, i am living with his parents, and he is helping his grandmother with her bills. His older cousin, "Richard" lives there too, and does NOT want my boyfriend there. He comes in every single morning and threatens and screams and yells every morning to my boyfriend, and it is causing a lot of stress with EVERYBODY. I can't really do anything, but it wasn't a serious problom until i found out Richard has beaten his past girlfriends and his younger sibling. He is also extremely bi-polar. It would be TONS of stress on his grandmother if he and my boyfriend got in a fight, and Richard has alsready physically tried to do so. He can't move in here because there is no room, and his grandmother needs him right now, plus he has to save up to move out. WHAT DO WE DO?

peggin_beast · Accepted Answer

if he's bi poal get him on the right meds.  if he attacks others, have him arrested.
if he's such a badass, they family need to put a restraining order out on him and so what if he gets kicked out of granny's?  he can go stay in a shelter   and learn to grow up and be a man.

littleredridinghood92 · Answer

Why is cousin "Richard " living there ? Evidently he's not helping with the bills or your boyfriend wouldn't be needed to help his grandmother. Richard needs some serious help. There's no telling what he may do to your boyfriend or his grandmother. I'm vey surprised the family would allow him to stay knowing that he is bi-polar. You pretty much walk around on egg shells around these kind of people because you never know what may set them off. It could be a very dangerous situation for every one involved. This guy can't be trusted and needs to be on something to help control his behavior & he for darn sure doesn't need to be living with an elderly person who basically has no way to protect or defend herself against some one like him.

Anonymous · Answer

i would concentrate on getting you and your boyfriend out of there.. nothing much else that you can do in that situation. some one like that is going to be trouble for who ever has to live with them so better you remove yourself from the situation than get more involved

Anonymous · Answer

ban richard from the house.. why does he hate your boyf so much?

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