Question for husbands?

I wish my wife would get out on the town occasionally! She seems really overloaded at times. And YES, if she was in the mood, I definitely would make love to her when she got home!

For me there are a lot of "depends on" scenarios. I would say no way if the wife, or mate, frequently went out; I mean weekly or even monthly. Also, it would depend on what she did there. Was she dancing with other men and getting to know other guys for the first time? No way, again. If it was a very infrequent one night out with her friends and the honest purpose of the night out was to get together with friends or work mates? . . . sure. The reason for going out matters to me. And of course what she would do once out. I trust my wife. It is rare for her to go out to a pub or club with friends. It probably happens every year or two. It has been that way since we got married. It is the same for me. I go out occassionally, but again, it is to visit friends or talk business. I also play on an old timers hockey team. My wife goes to an all female gym. We have been together for 26 years and have found many, many ways to be socially active with each other around. I believe that if you socially exclude or isolate your spouse the relationship will be in trouble.

As for the making love part. If she has been out with friends and had a few drinks and we are both ready for sex . . . hell yes. If you are asking whether or not it would happen if she has been out and had sex with another guy, well, not only would I say no, I'd help her pack her bags, and know she would feel the same way if the tables were turned!

I was just talking with my hubby about this one..He has always let me go out when I wanted..I am a stay at home mom so I do need to get out once in awhile..However we go out mostly together..When I do go out, my ego does get inflated from the extra attention and that only makes it better for my hubby when I get home..He goes out also with his friends when he wants..It is a give and take..As long as there is trust and open communication between you then it should be fine..You have to have your own identity and time..After all you are an individual as well as a partner not property..

Although my Wife is pretty much a homebody she has on occasion gone out with friends. More so for lunch then at night but every now and again she has ventured out with the girls. It's always been a fantasy of mine to think of my hot blonde Wife meeting up with an attractive stud (Black being a plus) that was attracted to her, had her dancing both fast and slow throughout the night, and got her HOT in her loins until they went out into the parking lot to one of their vehicles. Once there she's ravished and lets herself become lost in his embrace. Finally she can't resist any longer and they both shed their clothes and she takes his large manhood into her mouth and once hard rides him until he explodes into her. Then they say their good bye's and she comes home to me where she gives me all the sexy details while I'm busy savoring her new found "Bulls" creampie. Then I proceed to Love her the entire night and into the early morning hours. Oh how I wish.

My wife can go wherever she wants and come home late. Granted I'll probably be asleep but I would definitely make love to her. Too often we (as in clubbers) go home from a club hot and bothered anyway. So long as she does me the same courtesy and remembers where her responsibilities are. You know, the same rules that apply to us men.

This is one of those questions for which there is no good answer. When we were younger, my wife went out occasionally with her friends. I trusted her, but it made me feel insecure. (Creates the feeling that I'm not good enough somehow..) This often led to arguments - not love making. She felt I didn;t trust her, even after I explained how it made me feel. We are older now (early 40's) and neither of us go anywhere without the other. It's all good. My advice for young couples - search for ways to combine both groups of friends for outings. Be open and talk honestly about how situations like this make each other feel. Respect each other.

I am a widower but was married for a while and had this happen. Marriage is about trust foremost. If you don't trust her then you already have a problem. When she gets home if you trust her then you should have no issue with this because think about it like this. She goes to work or goes shopping to the grocery store. There are many opportunities for anybody to cheat. Like i said if you trust her and there is no reason like past cheating then i would have no problem making love to my wife when she gets home

I could care less if my wife goes to a club with her girlfriends. But kisses and more including fondling my wife she promised only to me in our marriage vows. Break the vows and I kick her curbside. Keep the vows and I'll f*ck her brains out when she comes home

I would so love it if my wife went out on the town and came home looking for some loving!! I would consider myself a very lucky man.

I let my wife go out with her friends I trust her. I have confidence in her and who I am that I am all she needs. I don't want to waste a minute of my life be jealous over anything. If she wants to leave me for any reason she will, not because I let her have some time to have fun with her friends.