Variety...in a relationship, is it possible to change?

are you guys married or not? if you are not married... and still love each other, u better give yourself a space and think over...

now if you guys are married, you better talk it over... what he said to you is just euphemism, he really wanted to get out of the relationship. he just didn't want to hurt your feelings.

happiness is not consistent

it's part of relationship

don't let the flame die out...

it's one of the hint of a long lasting relationship...

tell that to your friend ok?

no need for counseling.

the answer and decision will lie between them...

good luck to them.

Well this is really really hard.. At least he knows that he has a problem but it doesn't seem like he can change. I don't know for a fact because i dont know him but it really doesn't sound like it.

If he is really "in love with her" i don't think he would be having these thoughts. Maybe they should take a break, then if he tries to come on to other women during the break you will know that what hes saying is bullshit. If he tries to get help or misses her then she should give him another chance but still he needs to get help. If shes not that crazy about him, hes not worth the trouble then.

Personally, I don't think that leopard can change his spots, but there's always hope that love can change a man's heart to be able to honor commitment. Even with commitment, he will still be severely tempted to find thrills elsewhere... so it comes down to whether he can resist the temptation and honor his spouse.

According to my opinion he will never change. He will say same words to every girl and after using them he will run away.

i can't commit into a relationship,tell your friend to think with her heart,your friend should not make her bf commit to anyone,unless they have children.