My boyfriend has been taking too long to finish. Then we both get hot and tired and give up. What can i do?

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I don't know the two of you personally but here are a few things that could be making this happen....

1.) Do/Have you guys ever drink alcohol before hooking up/having sex? (even if it was only once) if so, Alcohol impairs the central nervous system which is responsible for an orgasm. Even if the orgasm was disturbed one time b/c of alcohol, he may have that one time somewhere in his mind when the two of you are together...and if that happens he will develop anxiety over time which will make it harder for him to climax. It may sound silly but it becomes a chain reaction and it all adds up.

2.) If he is stressed out it'll be harder for him to orgasm. Try telling him to do some relaxation/breathing exercises. The body can't have an orgasm if the Central Nervous System is NOT relaxed...he needs to have a clear mind.

3.) Maybe he is feeling some anxiety from a previous event. Either talk it out with him OR both of you see a specialist. The WORST thing you guys can do is NOT talk about it b/c the two of you are going to blame yourselves and the problem will just get worse.

4.) Certain medicines or anti-depressants can make it harder to have an orgasm. Once again i don't know him personally but this could be a reason.

Hope this helped!

Try and spice things up a bit, maybe he's finding it hard to get aroused and horny which makes him take longer. Try doing things a little differently like try some toys, foods such as cream, chocolate,role playing, foreplay or even changing the location to somewhere quite and no one is around but also safe like the beach maybe even watch porn together and see if u can act out some just as they do on the movie.

You're boring to him. Change up the routine. Maybe skip a few days, or go a few days without penetration. Give him a blowj*b or handjob. Also, since guys wake up arouses, try an early morning go and see if that doesn't help. And, if you just screw it gets really boring really fast. Try to rekindle the love.

You need to change your position when having sex. Let him do it doggie style. Hit it from behind. He needs to smack your

ass when having sex with you. Make sure he spanks your hot

ass that will help him a lot. He needs to bust five nuts in you. It will take longer for him to get off five good nuts. If you all have

sex more offten he will not take so long. He needs to also give

you oral sex. that will also help him not take so long.

Maybe he is trying to make it last as long as humanly possibly figuring you would enjoy it more that way. So, you might try just communicating that sooner is fine with you.

Yes, there are things you can do to get him there, such as, how can I put this... add a little lube to your finger and gently insert it. Well, that's one way.

Excellent!

i thought takin long was a good thing...but maybe u should try different positions...cuz diff positions can make him come quicker...he prolly bored in one position...try top side standin up from the back...lmao...try it all...that should work.....

I have the same problem and it actually makes me not want to have sex for a while after we have done it and it makes him mad when i make him wait.

Well, what happened with me, and it was really because I lost attraction, she just sat there and I did most of the work...so I said **** it.