ok heres another question in my drama filled pregnancy :) ok heres go. i live with my so called bestfriend?

i would defiantely get out of there. If things have changed now and your only 2 1/2 months along.. its gonna get worse.. Jealousy is what i see!! And you shouldnt be stressed out by a roomate. If anything she should be helping even more. And the inconsideration for you being pregnant.. her friend throwing up.. she should have cleaned it up! If you feel like it is a good idea to move with your bf then go for it. It will be better off for the baby.. if not.. maybe find your own place!

Girl, you are pregnant now. You have a new life growing inside you -- one which you are responsible for. You need to put aside the drama of your past life, because everything changes now that you are going to have a child.

I think you have answered your own questions:

1. YOUR pregnancy is the worst thing that ever happened to HER? hmmmm, she needs to get a life and you just let her worry about how she is going to handle the implications of YOUR baby.

2. The person you need to be developing a relationship with, bonding with, and beginning a home with is the father of your baby. Believe me, you are lucky he is willing. Your baby needs its father more than it needs your roommate.

3. You need to be in a calmer environment so that your pregnancy progresses as stress-free as possible. Cleaning up other people's puke is just not that stress-free. Pregnant ladies have morning sickness - and seeing other people's vomit isn't going to help! Plus who knows what germs might be in there which could harm the fetus. Time to unclutter your life and start building a nursery, getting baby clothes and equipment, feathering your nest so to speak.

4. Sorry you have to leave her so soon, but the baby is on the way now!

5. Say goodbye to the drama -- you are going to be a mother. Your baby is the innocent, sweet, precious one who needs you. Your roommate is presumably an adult.

This should be a no-brainer, so I hope you are ready to be a mom. You have a few more months to prepare, so I hope you can make the grown-up choices you need to make.

Im sry but ur so called bestfriend is a b*tch... if she really cared abt u, she wouldnt be giving u sh*t over u being pregnant she'd be planning ur baby shower. i understand u dont want to just leave her like that, but it clear that shes not going to make this a good situtation for u, if i were u.. id tell her to choke on it and leave. Y not move in with ur boyfriend? I mean wouldn't it be a better situation than with ur bestfriend now?? I'd definately consider it... u need people around u that are going to be supportive not a selfish friend thats probably mad that she lost her "partner in crime"

hope this help..

I would move out, your life is moving on from times when you were able to be room mates with someone. It's better to move out now, then wait till the baby is born. If she doesn't like the dog, wait til there is a baby involved. Plus, if your boyfriend wants to be part of the pregnancy living together will let him be there for you. Also your friend doesn't seem to be understanding at all to your situation, a real friend would be more understanding...she sounds a bit selfish.

Move out... She obviously will be causing too much trouble. You first of all should be with the person who is the father of the child (if he wants to), and the last thing you need is a bunch of garbage trouble around you while being pregnant. Were does she get the audacity from to ask you why you did not borrow money to get the plan b pill. That is absolutely not her business and it is out of line to say something like that to anyone. I would tell her that you are done with her crap and move out. It is not going to work out anyways if she is already reacting like this.

I would say you do whats best for you & your baby. You definetely dont need the drama or the extra stress right now. So if your boyfriend wants you to move out then do it. After all he is the baby's father. Your so called friend might be jealouse or selfish. And she probally does'nt understand whats it like to be pregnant. So in order to avoid situations like that with her move out. You guys dont have to stop being friends. But she has to understand that people do change & so do there lives as well. Good luck to you.

Look do whats best for you and the baby. if you trust you boyfriend and you know you can handle living with him then do it, he'll take care you of and understand you cant do as much as you usually could becuz your pregnant. Your friend sounds selfish, she needs to realize you are trying to help out and if she aint gona appreciate it then either you should sit down and have a heart to heart talk and if she dont except then move out. You got more important things then listening to someone ***** all the time.

its okay about it being long just do this just relax and move and not tell her because if she cares she will try and make things better and that dog well hope the puppies were worth your friends friendship. my boyfriend and i are getting a place and i might be pregnent as well and i am saying this as to say that he must really love you to want you to move in with him just don't get married really quick unless you've been dating a while and let your friend stew in her own anger, because if you been cleaning and she hasn't noticed it then she needs a wake up call and needs to get over it. you are a person and sometimes getting pregnent is a blessing in disguise is what my sister has told me so many times and she helps me out when i need her. i am going through a divoce from my exhusband do to problems and well she is letting me room with her and my three kids and her husband. as a friend i would say you can make it and if she wants to be friends then she needs to shape up or ship out.

so here how you have to look at the situation

if she were being a nice person and asking you for help around the house and understanding when you said you cant due to sickness, and if she didn't call your baby the worse thing to happen to her.. and if she wasn't being so selfish !! then I could understand your feeling bad for her.. however the fact that you are not being helped and your being stressed out and having to cleanup throw up and god knows what else would be the # 1 reason i leave there asap..

You need to sit down and tell, her that you ARE now pregnant and things are going to change. If she is uncomfortable with the issue then you can leave, but it's unfair of her to make you feel bad or guilty for being pregnant.

If you don't get a good response, leave anyway, you shouldnt have to deal with stress being pregnant is hard enough!

Good Luck