how can stop my husband from bringing his children to live with us?

you are being selfish, there his children, you cant keep a father away from his kids thats wrong!

U r intitled to childsupport and alimoy. That's part of the package of marring someone with kids is accepting them and tolerating them if they should come to live with us. But I would take a stand and set ground rules and if ur child is in school, u have the right to work and earn ur own income don't let him enable u, to many women have been there and stay because they don't know how to get out. So b strong and stand up to ur husband if he doesn't like it tell him there's the door, ur not going to be full time mother to his kids when u have one already to deal with.

Give your head a shake, then put the cookoo back in the clock!!!

These are his children. If you loved him, you would love them because they are a part of him.

You sound selfish and don't deserve to have the love of this man and his children.

Sounds like you have two choices. Leave now and be on your own or start making up your mind that you will grow to love his children, and make it happen. I was able to love my husbands son as if he is my own child, so I know it can be done. You should try not to be jealous of the children, and make sure you have your own time to be with your husband, and in turn make sure they have their own time to be with him, along with family time that involves everyone. If you try you can make it happen!

You're being ridiculously selfish. These are his flesh and blood you are talking about. Of course he's going to show them more attention, they are children!!!

If you're that worried that he's not going to show attention to you then talk to him about it. Make sure you guys have a date night at least once a week where the children aren't involved.

Stop being so full of yourself. If you really love this man then you would accept his children into your life and your relationship. They are your step-children! Treat them with love as you love your husband... You don't want to be the evil step-mother do you???

Ya, You're a WHOLE lot of selfish.

Can you do something like, your husband and you both love the kids when they are with both of you? Is that possible to do at all in your vertiginous mind?

Get yourself some training & a good job, so you won't be dependent upon the man, & so you can get away from it all some; then, if the step-kids does manage to drive a wedge between you & he, you will be able to take care of yourself. You may then find out that you like it, too.

Sorry, these are children we are talking about. You need to mature and realize children are defenseless and are innocent victims of the life parents inflict upon them. Your husband is just being a parent... I feel for these kids.

Explain to your husband why you are not willing to live with his children from his first marriage. At this stage of his life, he should know that he is asking too much from you.

Can you say run-on??? wow, try punctuation next time, it makes it easier for the reader.

As for your question, you need to accept these kids because you are looking for trouble in your marriage if you don't.