I have a fanticy?

People are different not every man or women has a swingers mentality. If she was the same way before your marriage you knew her personality and it isn't right for you to try to change her. Nor her to change you. I see a lack of compatibility here which isn't a good thing..

Here's a suggestion to you. Would your wife be open to you bringing a mirror into the bedroom? It's not threatening to your wife and you'd have a different view of your wife having sex with you, possibly giving you the illusion that she's having sex with another man.

Your wife does NOT need to open up sexually, you need to quit thinking that pimping her out would be hot.

Of course she's not up for being with other men. If a woman truly loves a man being with another man is the LAST thing on her mind!

You have issues, you need therapy to deal with them. Its crazy to have that kind of fantasy. Your wife deserves a man who wants her to be with only him!

I know that the urges can be strong...but if you really love your wife do you want to take a chance of pushing her away? Be patient you never know she may just come around to your way of thinking if you give her some time....you have to kind of ease into those types of things. If it happens at all it usually just depends alot on her beliefs.

thats a common fetish. getting turned on my jealousy.

just keep it a fantasy. dont try to make it reality [the her having sex with other men part]

try to suggest new ideas and new positions to make things more exciting.

maybe after she gets more comfortable sexually, she'll open up more..or atleast be more fun in bed ;)

You're wife, probably thinks your the one for her.

She may also think that your the only man she wishes to ever be with.

I guess you don't really know what you have till you lose it.

First of all its a FANTASY. I dont understand why you would want to see some dude run up in your wife.

record yourself having sex with her and watch it. it will be just as good. i guess its a turn on for some people to see sex from a 3rd person view. thats why porn is so popular.

Is your "fanticy" that you will get spellcheck for your birthday?

you have issues, your wife was meant for one man....you!