Lonely in Pregnancy? Do you also alone in pregnancy?

men do this thing when wives are pregnant....they seem to worry and not care like we want ...he is probably not going to know what to do or what you want from him unless you just tell him what is important....even then he may not. men do not sense that the baby is real untill they can hold it and play with it....they aren't like us. Your emotions are going to be wild too and you may be mean with out realizing it. He may feel pushed aside because you are wrapped up in the baby stuff...make sure that you try harder when you feel lonely to love him more as well and then he may reciprocate.

BOOOO! Sharp! She is NOT being selfish at all. There are some men that just happen to be clueless. There are little things that men can do to make their wives feel loved, but for some reason, they don't put the effort that they should. It doesn't take but 10 seconds to utter some words of support or love. Pregnant women need and deserve a little extra show of love and support. Yes he is working hard etc. does that mean that he can't show some excitement. At least fake it!

Maybe you should show him this question so he can see how you feel. Maybe he doesn't mean to be this way and will change. I hope everything works out well for you.

first off he cant read ur mine, and by u not saying anything then of course things wont get better. tell him exactly how ur feeling! Also remember that hormones do not help either! I had the same problem when i was pregnant, my bf wouldnt show me any emotional support at all. I told him how i felt and things got a lot better. good luck!

ok this is just what i think but it sounds to me like you are being very selfish. He is working so much to provide you and the baby with a very happy and fulfilling life and your angry at him for this? Do you really think he wants to work more then see you or talk to you? of course not, he's working so much because he has too for your sake. If your feeling lonely, think how he is feeling having to work when i'm pretty sure he would much prefer to be with you but again he's doing it to make you happy but your throwing it back at him because your expecting him to do everything. Stop being selfish and appreciate all the hard work he is putting for you !!

@question asker: you should combine what i have said with what Chal has said, i must admit i was being harsh at first but tell him how you feel and also appreicate he may be away so much to help, it could be his way of trying to show you he cares, but most importantly speak to him.

well you shud ask him if having this baby is the best ting for your marraige there are options of adoption if he's not ready for fatherhood but just ask him if he's ready