Sticking out "ladies bits"?

That's normal. Most guys either like them like that or don't mind. and unless he's really shallow then he shouldn't have an issue. If he is really shallow then you're better off without him anyway. In a relationship he should be fine with it but you say it's a one night thing in which case he would be pretty dumb to complain otherwise he wouldn't get any. He probably won't notice they're long either unless it's very light and let him have a good look/feel. They come in different lengths in different women but tend to be shorter in porn which is why a lot of women with longer lips get self-conscious - but it's fine. Good luck.

BTW - yeah like you know the pelvic muscle exercises answer is wrong, that won't affect your labia.

You are so in luck! There are these new things called Spin Pins! I found them at Target for about 6 bucks a pair.. two of those is all i need to keep my giant mop of thick hair in a bun all day. And they are so easy! If you don't like those, just experiment with using pens. If you aren't familiar with how to make a bun, just gather your hair like you are making a pony tail, and then twist. Then stick some regular bic pens in there or whatever as practice. Eventually you figure out where you need to put them to get better hold. But the Spin Pins.. seriously. SO easy and stay in place! I don't know about the rats though? Hope this helps!

Hi;

Its quite normal for girls to have long inner lips.

Besides, men usually do not even notice.

Most men know that inner lips do swell when a woman is aroused, so when they hang out, he will automatically assume that you are very aroused.

Just do not let it worry you so, and have a lot of fun.

Hugs

C

Well.... You won't be stretching them when you're with him will you?....When you become sexually excited your outer genitals swell so you wouldn't notice the size so much although you will more than likely find you are the same as anyone else and its just anxiety causing you to think you're large down there. When flaccid the vaginal lips do seem longer.. Don't worry it will be fine.

There are men who actively seek ladies with such attributes as yours - it is all down to personal preferences - does it put a bloke off if his interest is in busty ladies when someone lesser endowed is available?

No, it wouldn't put me off. Lots of ladies have sticky-out bits.

In any case, if you have a moderate amount of pubic hair it'll probably not be too apparent.

I'm sure you'll worry about it more than he will.

its completely normal and he will have no problem with it. every woman's labia is different. yours is not abnormal in anyway so dont worry.

I'd make a "flaps hammock" from God's distaste for you.

That's a no btw.

He probably wont even notice. There are things you can do to help tuck them inside. I would look up increasing pelvic floor muscles. They can help shape you better, and increase pleasure on his and your side!

IM WRONG??? LOOK THIS UP YOU MORONS!!!!!!

Kegel exercises prevent vaginal prolapse OR IN OTHER WORDS EXPOSED LIPS............ wow you people are stupid!!!!!!!!!!!

The aim of Kegel exercises is to restore muscle tone and strength to the pubococcygeus muscles in order to prevent or reduce pelvic floor problems and to increase sexual gratification. Kegel exercises are good for treating vaginal prolapse and preventing uterine prolapse in women; and for treating prostate pain and swelling resulting from benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) and prostatitis in men.

Kegel exercises may be beneficial in treating urinary incontinence in both men and women.[3] Kegel exercises are also known as pelvic floor exercises, or simply Kegels.

And A GUY??? What Happened to you being GAY???? that was just one year ago!

there all shapes and sizes i won't worry about that, I'd be more concerned about if i was likely to catch anything from someone i hardly know!