What would you do?

** Sending You A Big Hug** You're still his dad, screw a DNA. Damn this is really messed up. I'm not going to give you a long drawn out speech, I will say this don't treat him any different, he's innocent. I need to come and slap his Mama..........

Just because he is not your biological son doesn't mean your not his father. Someones father is the one who raised him and taught him right from wrong.. Since that was you, no other man has the right to take your place.. ever.. 10 years in someones life, you aren't going NO WHERE!! You might not be his DAD but you are and always will be his father.. just realize that you can't just abandon him after you spent all these years with him.. Just think how that would make him feel.

If you've raised him, you ARE the father, no matter what DNA says. Have you had a chance to talk to the mother? She should be ashamed of what she did and so should all the mothers that lie to a guy about fathering a child.

First of all shame on you for not asking for a DNA test to begin with.

Second of all, you should never have had the DNA test done now you have bonded.

Third of all..as much as this hurts you can you understand how this child is going to feel? You are the only dad he knows, if he for one minute doubts that your feelings have changed he is going to feel rejected for a 3rd time.

You have been given a gift of a child, embrace it. No real man would walk away from this situation.

He has to be told (he must know something is up since he had a swab taken) Make sure you are the one that tells him and not that *itch.

Why don't you men use your brain a little before unzipping your pants? Not all women are worthy of a *uc*.

HUG!! That said, my husband's dad is not his biological father. He is still his father in every way, and treats him no different than his biological children. He is the only father my husband has ever known, just as you are the only father your son has ever known. My FIL also treats me as a daughter, and adores our children, who aren't even any blood relation. He treats them better than some blood relatives, so believe me that blood isn't everything. Our families are determined by our actions, not bloodlines. Please don't regret that you are raising a boy who will be a good man, since he has such a good example to live up to. And can you honestly imagine your life without him in it? More hugs to you-stay strong!

In the eyes of the law you are the father, i don't think there is anything you can do. I think you should continue to love the boy and raise him as you were doing before. he is also an Innocent victim in this and to deny him the love, support and family structure he has had for the majority of his life could leave him scarred. You don't love him any less and you can't get back those ten years.

You would probably feel better if you went upside that skanks head a couple of times.

I think you should still take care of him. I mean, you were the one who was raising him for most of his life. Maybe it is better for him to know. But you shouldnt look at him differently. I know, that it is hard. I would be upset to if I were you. But I am not, so I cant imagine how hard it is to be in your place.

you are probably a better father than any one else. I can tell you care. Jus tkeep doing the great things that you do!

Good luckkk.

I really hope this helps you!

God Bless You!

Man...that kid is yours in every way except DNA. DNA don't mean squat. It's what is in your heart and his that make a Father & Son. Don't blow what you have. There's a couple hunderd guys out there that would give up their soul to have what you have. This one for damn certain.

I know that feelings sudden change but know that he is your son still who brought you happiness the past years. As long as he is a good boy, respect you and love you as his father, there is nothing to stop loving him.

I truly cannot imagine what you are going through but try to remember that it is not your son's fault (and he is your son of your heart if not biologically) and in his eyes you are dad. No matter what. The love of a child is the greatest gift. Please be strong. I am so sorry you are going through this.