what would you do?

Married people need to not be in places where they will be tempted by the opposite sex, it would be easy to get involved in something wrong. YES I would be upset

This is putting yourself in a situation where (even if you don't do anything wrong) someone could be tempted. Why look for trouble? If a person is not ready to settle down or still feels the need to go out to clubs with friends, she/he shouldn't get married.

The answer lies within your own insecurities. If your spouse would cheat, he will find a venue and it doesn't have to be a club. You can't hold a relationship together by controlling your partner, this only pushes you apart. You married someone and accepted they loved you, if they don't live up to the bargain you have some decisions to make.

I think its perfectly fine for your spouse to go out to a club without his or her significant other...as long as they are trustworthy. If your husband has never done anything wrong...then you shouldn't have a problem with it.

No I wouldn't but that seems to be the way cheating starts out. When folks use others to hide behind, watch out, it's sneaky time in the house!

If it was a long times in betwen this it would be ok but this would be a very rare thing. If it started to be rare she would not be around no more. But i give her plenty of attention.

yes i would b/c you 2 are married and grown adults...you supposed to go out t/g not seperately,thats how problems erose,especially in clubs where there's females,and males are around to be booty grinding with..

yes i would be upset. i was lucky that he understood after explaining this to him, but i know nowadays it`s harder to get them to understand us. Why you dont do the same and see his reaction?

Yes very. IMO it's just asking for trouble.

No, not if it was just once or twice; if it was an ongoing thing, I wouldn't like it.