Girls would you like a guy that puts both you and your feelings first?

I'm not sure if you meant to relate what happened with this girl as her not wanting to be with a man who puts her and her fellings first. I would say, she probably broke up with you because she is confused with everything that is going on. Being pregnant with an ex's baby is a huge deal for any girl and this must mean that they broke up only recently or have been having intercourse until recently. May be she needs to sort that out first before jumping into a relationship with you and I respect this girl for that. May be offer your friendship to her coz she could definitely use it. If she wants to be back with her ex then let her go and move on. I think you shold be ok with that. You seem to understand that things dont always work out and all the relationships or dates and never worked out for you is not your fault. May be the timing and the person wasn't right. YOu will find the right one soon. I wish you the best of luck :)

Honestly, you sound like a very wonderful guy and any girl is very lucky to have you. I know because my bf is the same way. It makes him happy when I'm happy and it seems that its his goal in general to keep me happy. There will be plenty of girls who will appreciate you. I am one of them and there are many who seek men like you and its a rarity!

I'm sorry to hear this has happened to you. I'm sure she is very upset and confused at the moment. She broke it off but maybe that was an impulsive action and she just needs time to figure out what to do.

As for your question, I left my husband a while ago because he was selfish and never put me first. I am currently with a great guy who always puts me first. I personally love it but sometimes Its hard to adjust to after putting up with someone who didn't for so long. most girls would love a man to do this but are so used to the opposite that when they do find a man that does it, its difficult to believe its genuine. I'd like for my boyfriend to show he's human and let me be the one to put his feelings first. a relationship works both ways.. each person has to give and give equally. Make sure that you find a woman willing to put your feelings first too.

Good luck and I know that you will find that special someone.

Yes, of course. The problem with this is that you are not the cause of her sadness. This is a big deal and she just needs to sort it out without the complication of a new relationship...no matter how flexible you are about it. It may not work out that you and she will end up together but don't give up who you are.

That's really nice of you just watch your own back and make sure you don't get walked all over

I'm sure you'll be very happy. Why do you need reassurance. Make sure it's not an act. Having faults and stuff is part of what a relationship is about. It's about accepting the whole package unconditionally.

You sound like a great guy. Just keep being you and one day you will meet someone who feels the same as you. Lots of love x

you sound like a great guy and sometimes when guys seem "too perfect" a lot of women get scared and back away. idk why. i am the same as you i take things as they come and don't get upset very easily and i love a man that treats me like you treat her. maybe contact her in a week and just ask how she is doing. i know a lot of people will probably say this but honestly you will find someone who is perfect for you and not afraid of your feelings. good luck!!

Uhm.. Maybe she made up the pregnate story!

I know it's harsh but If you seemed happy and you offrered to stay with her. She probably didnt like you! Im sorry It['s the only thing I can think of! I hope things get better! I would of tried to make it work

Of course that's what we want. She's just having a hard time trying to make the right decision for the baby.

Have you talked to her? Make sure that this is what she wants. Talk to her about this, try to get her back. Don't let it just die that quick. She might like you a lot but feels ashamed. Try talking to her one last time man. One last time.

God Bless.

- Everyday is Blessed! Enjoy Life!

of course ! i would love to meet a man just like that. having someone there for me when i feel like things are falling apart but knowing that your are there with me to pick up the pieces and comfort me.

some people dont relize what they have until its gon and i believe the girl that just left you i think she goes well with quote.