What should I do?

I agree with the person that said press charges against her and get a restraint order put on her. I dont know if it's your kids or their kids at school that she is talking to, but shes really sick in the head to do that. Those poor kid's. Its probably making them have a terrible day at school. I would call the family courts in your local area and explain the situation. They can help you with filing charges/getting a restraint order and they will make her go to counseling because what shes doing isnt good for anyones mental well being. Its good that CPS sided with you, that proves you right even more. It is against the law for someone to do that for revenge and if they side with you, you can sue her for deformation of character. Just tell your hubby that you are going to call the family courts because IT IS hurting you and she is the one that isn't leaving you out of it and he should back you up. I am so sorry. What a terrible situation.

sorry, but this is the price one pays, when an ex is involved.

First we would have to know where she stands as far as, visitation or custody?

I will say, that she may have had the right to question her kids at school, but certainly not yours, if so, you ought to be all over that principal. The same if she interfered with classes or upset them.

There are ways to stop it but, they would involve legal action. It would not be to her benifit, nor seen as rational by a judge to be disturbing them at school, if she had visitation. Calls to Child Services could be seen as harrassment, if her concerns were unfounded, multiple or imagined.

If i were you i would document all her actions and behaviors that pertain to your relationship and kids on a large boxed callender or daily planner, in case, for future reference.

If it all ever becomes a point of harrassment or great stress, you can at least have a legal letter express the consiquences if she persists.

What a sad situation. You're going to have to go to the authorities and get some kind of order on this lady if she keeps causing problems. Sit down with your family as well and really discuss how you want to handle things.

Your family needs love right now, and all of the members in your family need to support one another and really trust in eachother. That's what is going to keep you stable in this time. I hope that relationships in your family remain, or start being healthy. Good Luck.

God Bless

hmm, i am not a big fan of child services, they have got their own agenda, i would go to the cops and have her arrested, the school needs to held accountable too, she has no right speaking to your kids, especially at the school, all she is doing is harassing you and your family, and things are just going to get worse unless you do some thing, she sounds like a real whacko, may be a case for mental health to handle? get some legal advice soon before she does some thing bad to you or one of your family

Wow...your husband needs to take care of this. The ex needs to grow up and act like an adult at least for her kids sake. She is putting them in the middle of something that they shouldn't have anything to do with.

Find out from the police if there's anything legally you can do. You might be able to charge her with harrassment. Once you get a police file, if she doesn't stop, she can go to jail. Good luck with this.

Sounds like she is more than stalking and that should get you a restraining order. Did you have no clue she was crazy befoer you married into this mess?

Your husband really does need to step in a little more and take control of the situation.

Maybe file harassment charges on her.. File a restraining order..

Tell your husband to man the he// up and handle this *****. If he doesnt then you should. Shes disrespecting you and in my world thats simply not tolerated.Tell her to move on and quit being childish shes only hurting herself..