If we judge a person negatively because they think they are better than others...haven't we just committed the

You're right, i often find myself thinking people are awful people for judging other, and realising that i'm doing exactly the same thing. Most often i found that i'm not judging people at all, just their actions, but i'm not really sure if that makes a difference.

The act of judging in itself is a deed most likely to evoke

negativity, i've always hate'd the term constructive critisizim,

as though there were a polite way to tell some one they suck

at what there doing, lol . . .

The word itself implie's negativity, i beleive the best way to

critisize or judge if you will, is to encourage one in there

quest whatever it may be, i always look for the point in

something some one is doing to find out what they may

be trying to convey in there expression, not so much as

i don't like them cause they think there better than me,

but more as why do they feel they need to be superior to

every one else? in the first place . . .

Not only are we then a hypocrite, we are also 'afraid' of looking at our selves, that part(s) that we hate enough to start pointing fingers.

Example: If I take the time and energy to hate a woman for driving a huge SUV with a keep Tahoe Blue sticker on it and then thick about how I'd like that 4-door jeep Rubicon......both suck on gas, use oil, and have components that hurt the environment......so I am no better than the woman I just judged!

Don't even get me going on cell phone / texting while driving! :)

yes, you are right because we are thinking negativlely because maybe we had a dad or mom that just didnt get a break,or a spouse or ??? i think compassion is the key. i do believe you get what you receive acceptence and pure friendship is priceless.my motto "everyone pees everyone poops" we are.