My mrs is on Strike. She won't have sex with me, what shouild I do to get her back in the sack?

Brother, with my long years of experience, i have realized that relationship is like a politics. I am not kidding!

if you are rich guy, that it is like the American Politics and if you are poor guy, than it is the african and asian politics with alot of trouble. And if u have family estate and big resources than it is the politics like that of Middle East.

Look brother, in politics, you need to play. You need to hide things, u need to tell lie and u need to be all this because not for you but the betterment of the country. It is same in relationship, u need to lie , u need to hide things,, but not for bad intention but to make ur relationship work.

Remember my friend, in politics, u have to get back during particular time and go ahead in other time. I know u love your wife. keep on loving her. try to convince her that u love her.. not by telling "i love you , baby " or like that.... Put blanket around her .. when she is sleeping.. if anyhow she notices that.. she will feel good... if she is out.. make her some food in the home so that she have it after comming back.... if she is going back.. ask.. if she haven't forgotten anythign.. just let her know that u love her.. good luck. brother..

On strike means there is some situation that is intolerable to her and she is making a stand to try to effect change. Can you change what is bugging her so much? Think it over and then show her that you can and will change whatever is the problem, or tell her you will not change the issue and be prepared for worse to come.

Fix the problem. They usually go on strike when you treat them like a maid and show no respect or love. Marriage is a two way street and you need to give to get.

i would do whatever it takes to make her content again

she probably feels that in the past she has had to shoulder more than her share and is tired and has had enough

try

learning to cook

listening intently when she is trying to say how she is feline

taking the garbage out - especially when it is raining

spending quality time with the kids (if you have any)

massage her feet at the end of a long day

be generous towards her with your time and money

in short start spoiling her with your time and attention and your deeds - if you do genuinely care about her that is rather than just want what you want out of her (in which case expect the 'strike' to continue)

Take control back. For one, I think it is wrong to use sex as punishment in a marriage. Tell her that if she wont give it up, you will be forced to find it somewhere else...lol. Kidding

But seriously, you need to tell her what's up...what did you do to piss her off? Ya see, I love my husband...he could mess up bad, but I would never want to not have sex with him. I still to this day can't get enough of him. You guys need to have a serious sit down, sex is very important in a marriage.

Stop calling her "My Mrs" have some respect.

Stop trying to "get her in the sack" there is nothing worse that a man treating you like shite, then wanting sex.

And lastly, have you ever thought that she doesnt want to "get in the sack" with you ???? Maybe she is making love to somebody else!!

Get your act together

Well that depends on why she's on strike now, doesn't it.

Either way i'd start with an apology and some serious sucking up!

My personal opinion...Withholding sex is not an option & it punishes me more than anything. I'd rather have sex with my partner than stay mad at him!

Well what are u not doing that she went on strike?? Do what needs to be done and the strike will be over!!

Usually to end a strike you give them the raise in pay that they want.

theres gotta be a reason why shes not having sex with you did you get in a fight, or respect her a relationship isnt based on sex