If my b-f was hanging out and drinking with his brother's g/f while he was out of town...?

If you are already having trust issues, then he's possibly not the one for you. Plus, if he's already asking you to keep secrets from his brother, then something must've happened between the two of them. I can't say for sure they actually went all of the way, but something must've of taken place between them. Perhaps, it was just words. But those words spoken could have been a little heated.

I would be. It's hard to trust someone without actually knowing the facts but trust is what makes a relationship and if trust isn't there? Well, it's really not a good thing. It's a little odd to me that he was drinking alone with her but if you think he is faithful then stick with him but if it turns out that something DID happen lose him he'll do it again (if he can do something like that to his brother then he's not even worth the fight)

I don't know if they did it, but i'd say it's highly possible, that they did, especially if they've had sex before. My question to you is, did he sleep with her, while she was with his brother? To me, it sounds like he may be still sleeping with her and he told you not to tell his brother, because his brother either knows, or may be suspicious, of their relationship. I wouldn't be letting the two of them, hang out together, if I were you, I wouldn't care, if he told me, nothing was going on. I think deep down inside, you know somethings not right, or you wouldn't be here, asking this question. Always listen to your instincts, most of the time, they're right. Here's what you should do, ask him if it's ok, if you hang out with them, if he questions your reason for asking, then you know somethings not right. He has no reason, whatsoever, to question you, after all, you are boyfriend and girlfriend and you have every right to join the two of them. If they are sleeping together, that's a shame, how could he look his brother in the face, knowing he's sleeping with his girlfriend. Absolutely sickening, to take the chance on losing your brother, over someone that's not even blood!

Well I say it all depends. In what well first of all if nothing really happen then u should trust him. But that other guy should know what happen its the right thing but that's your decision. Why don't u confront the girl and ask her. I you don't want to be a ***** about the situation then why don't you go along and drink with them. Their shouldn't be a problem and if their is then their is something going on. Well hope u resolve the issue.

I think you should be very concerned about it. If he got that drunk he probably doesn't remember what went on. Maybe you should talk to one of his friends or something and ask them what happened maybe. If he's made out with her before he'd do it again and maybe worse. I'd talk to his brother about it and I think I'd dump him because you don't deserve to be treated that way! Good luck and hope I helped!

Why are you with someone whom you have trust issues with? Relationships are based upon trust and if you have trust issues right at the beginning of a new relationship, it doesn't bode well for the future.

okay if he says nothing happened then think you should trust him.........just keep an eye on his brothers girl friend but make shure you dont leave the two of them alone together something may happen its a huge possibility

When you said they made out.. you should throw trust out of the window. Even worse, he want you to help him lie. Time to move on from this cheater and loser.

Everyone deserve true love, why should you deserve less?

I think there is definitely something up here. Obviously the brother doesn't know they are together getting drunk and probably wouldn't approve of it either. If they are already doing things to deceive him, what makes you think they wouldn't do something to deceive you? Think about it...

you should be worried. what is he trying to hide from his brother? if nothing really happened he shouldnt be sketchy. but also the fact they have made out before, i'd be concerned there.