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Guy trouble!?

Well, I know I can go to countless websites for advice on this && such, but none of them seem to consider this kind of guy. :/

He's 15, turning 16 soon. (I'm 16) He's a drama nerd (like myself. ;]). He loves to sing, loves to dance. HSM is his favorite movie ever. He has the prettiest hair I've ever seen. It's very full && red. :) He's a tad metro, but it definitely works for him.

Wow. It's really hard to describe his personality. :/

He comes off as really cocky && conceited, which he is, but he's also the most hilarious person on Earth. Girls love him, because he's sort of like one of the girls, but guys hate him because he is such a flirt.

But the other day, we came dangerously close to kissing, and I'm not sure whether he took it seriously or not. I mean, our faces were literally like, a cm apart. And he was trying so hard to make me laugh. And today he kept tickling me and giving me piggyback rides. Do you think he likes me? Or am I just fooling myself? :/

Update:

Well, see, that's the thing. He flirts with like, every girl so it's hard to tell. And if I ask him, he'll probably say yes, but only because that's the kind of guy he is.

And I won't know whether to take him seriously or not and that'll confuse me even more. :(

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  • Siva
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    Well relatively both of you are pretty young in your teens.

    My advice to you is this:

    Every single relationship starts off with a spark because in most cases, people just jump into any relationship:

    1. After having known the other for a very short period of time

    2. Due to similar likings or hobbies

    3. Due to similar characteristics or personalities

    4. Maybe they slept together for a while or had a fling

    5. Due to good chemistry

    6. Various other reasons/factors.

    But a good relationship takes lots of time, trust, compatibility and understanding, meaning both parties really need to spend time and effort to really get to know each other besides whatever feelings they might have for each other before they really commit into a relationship. This is the mature way I know of.

    I'm not sure what are your priorities in wanting to have any relationship with this guy now due to your age. It all depends on how you feel for him and what you want from this relationship. It's best you really get to know him better before you commit. If it's just a kind of fling thing, then you may do whatever you wish ;)

    Do not forget it's your life and your choice. You decide what's good for your own future regardless of its negative consequences or repercussions. Experience is our Teacher.

    I wish you all the best and I hope you decide what's good for you :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well i definatley think that he likes you because the things that he is doing are major flirting moves ..... if you really want to know well just ask but dont be really serious when you ask him do it like right after you to are laughing and stuff and be like uhh i really like you and i was wondering if you liked me i hope it works .. good luch=]

    Source(s): my source was my personal experiances
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