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Who would you rather be with?

...the one who loves you, or the one you love? why?

Update:

I was 'inspired' to ask this question coz of a song (from the '80s I think) that goes:

are you gonna stay with the one who loves you

or are you going back to the one you love

someone's gonna cry when they know they've lost you

someone's gonna thank the stars above

Tricky question I suppose, but I'm really curious to know what you all think. Thanks!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Ahhh, a trick question. that would be the same person, for I am in love with the one who loves me. Unless love is returned when given are we not lieing to our self. No one should settle for less than what they want. In a one way relationship the other person is eventually going to resent the other and before long will leave feeling broken and used. If you don't get what you give, you are the looser.

    Source(s): Married 36 years and still love the one I'm with, probably will till I die.
  • 1 decade ago

    That's a very diffucult question.....

    Probably the one I love,

    Because he could love me,but....ARG.

    um..

    both.

  • 1 decade ago

    NEITHER IF IT DIDNT GO BOTH WAYS... WHO WANTS TO BE WITH SOMEONE THEY DONT LOVE, OR SOMEONE WHO DOESNT LOVE THEM...??

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