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My best friend husband all ways had it hard keeping a job. He seems drawn to the neighbors by running over to their house three to four times daily, (the friends are males). It's been atleast three months since he had a job. What do you think I should tell her? Do you think she should even be mad if he goes over to the neighbor house?
10 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
id say she probably already knows and if she wanted to talk about it she would ... i can see where you would be concern because she is your friend ...but when it comes down to it ..its none of your business ...they could separate over it ... but if they love each other and work things out ...hmmm who would be the nosey bad guy then ? good luck ...
- SSLv 51 decade ago
Relax... You don't have to over-react to that.. Let him be.. Who knows how stressed that man is behind doors? Maybe he's running over to the neighbours' house for the lack of human touch since he lost his job!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
hell yes she should be mad particurly if he's being a bum and it's your business because she is you friend, i don't really understand that you need to say anything to her unless she either doesn't know he is always at the neighbours or that you think she should dump him, personally i think she should i gave my hubby the boot when he wouldn't work and he got a job that week and has been there 3 years now.
- frillyfroofrooLv 61 decade ago
mmmmmm.......doesn't she already know this? Or is she at work?
I wouldn't say anything unless she's at work when all this is happening - and then, only casually, like: "I notice_____has become very friendly with the neighbors. Is he working for them now?"
If you interfere, he will interfere into your friendship.
Joy to you!
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- Mmmkay?Lv 41 decade ago
This doesn't seem to be any of your business. If she wants your advice - then she will ask and you can give it. Otherwise, let her handle her marriage the way she wants too. It's her and her husband's life and her decisions - not yours. Just be there for her if she needs you.
- 1 decade ago
i think it's a decision she needs to come to on her own, unless she asks or it is putting her in financial ruin, in which case she needs to ask herself if the relationship is contributing in any positive ways at all, if not she's probably better off without.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Tell her what you think about it.First just sit her down.She might get upset.
