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My boyfriend and I are the hot # but he drives me nuts!!?
I am totally crazy about my boyfriend. Deeply in love with him, I even want to get married to him. But we hardly agree. If he is up I'm down. I want to know if it is the same situation with everyone else. Are you always aguing.? How can a person love someone so badly and hate(not really but you get the point) them at the same time. He drives me crazy both ways. Hawww?
Thank guys for your well put together ans. They were a big help. No breaking up just buckling up for the ride! Wow!
12 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
the first answer doesnt get your sentence. I know exactly what your saying. You two are a hot number but the disagreemennts are just killing you. Studies show that arguing actually builds a relationship between partners. AS LONG as you too make up at the end, understanding your differences. If you or him fight and keep the anger bottled in, that will end it for the both of you. Understand he has opinions and enjoy the uniqueness of each other. never end an argument incomplete. in the end you both will understand each other rather than keeping issues held up inside. Good luck. Don't ever physically fight. communication is Key
- 1 decade ago
My man and I are the exact same way. We disagree about a lot, and end up mad for what seems like no reason. We are getting married, and what I have found that helps is not only communication, but when you communicate, be sure that you're being honest. Never blame or point the finger, because that makes an argument last longer than it needs to. Leave out all sarcasm and yelling, and really listen to each other. See in what ways you can compromise. No one wants to totally give in, so the key is to give a little and take a little. Work together with your differences and don't let them work against you.
- 1 decade ago
The first couple of years of my relationship, my partner and I disagreed about EVERYTHING! After 5 years, we took a break from each other (only lasted 3-4 weeks!) and when we got back together... we have been perfect since! (now been 8 years) The break up made us realise how many petty fights we were having. At the end of the day we realised that if the fight wasn't worth breaking up over, just force yourself to "get over it!" Easily done with a big smooch! So.... tell your b/f to pucker up honey!
- 1 decade ago
move in with each other after 2 months if you guys are still together you have a Chance . Wait a year or two before you get married
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- Mary ContraryLv 61 decade ago
If he's driving you crazy now, just imagine what it will be like once you're married and have to make common decisions about everything. Do yourselves a favour and break it off.
- 1 decade ago
sometimes opposites really attract. maybe thats WHY you like this guy so much? because he is someone who isnt scared to argue with you or something? dont worry about it, as long as it doesnt turn into fights that make you feel bad, its not a bad thing. just watch out for him becoming violent or aggressive, or those feelings in yourself. otherwise dont worry too much about it =)
- <3Lv 51 decade ago
me and my bf are like that. comeplete oppostites. we fuel eachothers fire. but i love him at the end of it. plus it makes for good make up sex
- Anonymous1 decade ago
i dont understand what this has to do with you and ur bf being hot??? you sound like a concieted stuck up couple
- Anonymous1 decade ago
no I dont get ur point