What would you do if your boyfriend slept with someone else??

HOPE! Being that i know more about the situation and why he has access to his ex. My advice is you have to leave him. Him cheating on you tells me he has no interest in leaving her house and that her needing his help is bullshit. he wants his cake and eat it too. If I was in your shoes with the cheating....it would never happen again to me. I'd be gone. There are plenty of strong woman who raise their kids single....You are worth more that this! And mr right will come just concentrate on staying healthy for the baby you are carrying and taking care of your other children....Good luck honey and i'm here if ya need to talk!

If he slept with his ex last night I wonder just how committed he really is as it seems you both knew about the baby before he cheated on you. Some of this makes no sense. It usually takes people a long time to admit to infidelity, so I'm confused about why he told you. The best thing to do is to talk it through and work out why he did it. You seem more committed than he does.

Ive been with someone for 10 months and I know how you feel being that close, if that happen to me, I would be just as hurt, I would have to leave him, since the relationship will never be the same again, and everytime you look at him, you'll probably think about that, it's best to leave him and feel the pain now, instead of ruining your whole life with him being miserable, and maybe even being cheated on again.

Sorry to hear that this has happened to you. But for starters he would no longer be my boyfriend. I know that eight months is some time but to already be expecting a baby....some might say that is too soon. Anyway...if he was your soul mate he would not disrespect you like that and sleep with anyone that includes his exgirlfriend...they are called ex's for a reason and to me it sounds like she is trying to be back in his life or he wants to be in hers. We can't tell you hat you need to do only you can do that...if it were me he would no longer be my man...he has broken the issue of trust...how will you trust him again that is something that he is going to have to earn back in a major way if you chose to still be with him. And it obvious that his ex is a strong part of his present life...otherwise he would not have slept with her. You have a big decision to make ...BUT if it were me he would no longer be my man....Good Luck to you

After that you can't stay with him!! It would be so disrespectful to yourself if you let him get away with it. Once guys get caught and you let it slide, they just learn to hide it better... It will happen again... You can't let them treat you like a piece of meat... Someday someone will come and be there for you... Try to maybe wait a little while longer to have a child with someone...until you have been together for a few years...That way you will have more security in the relationship...

Sorry to hear! Life will get better =/

I'm sorry to hear this happened to you. Unfortunately if I were you I would kick him to the curb and teach him a lesson. He obviously has some commitment issues that he needs to work out. If he truly loves you as well, then kicking him out might make him turn his life around. And for you...you need to watch out for yourself more often, learn how to protect yourself and stop taking garbage from people. Cheating is not acceptable in any situation.

Leave him. If it happened once it will surely happen again.

A relationship needs more than love to survive. How about faithfulness and trust? You need to stop putting your heart before your head.

You have your children to think of first. They deserve a stable environment in which to grow up. They depend on you. Going it alone can be difficult, but it is better than not knowing day to day whether he is faithful to you or not.

Good Luck to you.

Break up with him!!! He cannot be trusted. Is he the kind of example you want for your children?

If you decide that you love him too much and want to work at your relationship - DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM AGAIN until he's been tested for STD's!!!

Unfortunately, once you take back someone that's cheated, they'll expect you to always take them back.

Obviously he still isn't over his ex. You can find someone else that will treat you better. Have your respect for yourself and make a stand. It hurts bad. I know, But you need a man that cares for you liek you do for him, Good luck

I would be upset and tell him to give me time by myself and when I am ready to talk to him I will ask him do he still love his ex, and where do our relationship stand. He is a cheater and I couldn't be able to trust him. Good Luck.