I'm having trouble keeping my dick hard/ maintaining erection any advice?

Erectile Dysfunction is not necessarily physical brotha. You need to understand that if you can get hard in other situations, but not during intercourse, then it IS E.D. Temporary or not, it is still E.D (psychological form).

I'll tell ya what I think, it is performance anxiety. The first time you have sex with someone you might "mess things up," ejaculate too early, get nervous and not stay hard, ect ect. The first time unfortunately sets the bar. Each time you have sex with her after that, you might be thinking "oh no, i must do better, i must do better...please, don't change positions, i'll lose my erection!" And now you are in an unhealthy mindset that will only snowball unless you work really really hard to fix it.

A penis' rigidity and erection strength comes from your brain. Your brain tells it to get hard and then some physical things happen with blood flow. If you are not relaxed, your mind is not going to be willing to send those signals to the penis.

I am 22, and I just got out of a relationship with a 30 year old. The same problem existed for me as it does for you. I was never able to get over it with her. I got to the point where there was no longer any physical attraction in my eyes. If you don't fix the problem right now, it will only snowball. Now it affects me in other relationships. "OH no, I hope I don't lose my erection like I did with her." You have to relax; have her give you a backrub. Try lights out. Candles. Music you enjoy. Then when you start having sex, keep your mind ON sex, but not on your performance.

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It's not unusual for women to only be able to climax with oral and/or digital stimulation, you're trying for something that's not needed, and the end result is frustration for you, and probably her too, because she's not going to benefit from excess intercourse. The dick, to a woman, is not the be all end all of a sexual experience. I hope that doesn't hurt your feelings I know men take a deep interest in that organ, but to a woman any way she climaxes is just fine.

The whole clitoral v vaginal climax is a very old idea, all the way back to Freud, who thought one was infantile and the other adult. He was wrong about that too.

So don't approach this as a dick thing, you've been disappointed in that and for that reason your dick isn't going to be happy and each time you approach her now your thinking that in some way you're not 'right' and nothing makes a man wilt faster that thinking he's not doing it right. Enjoy yourself, and let her enjoy herself and then...stop.

You know I have the same problem. But only if I'm with someone new. I was with my ex for 4 years and never had an issue getting hard or staying hard but anytime I'm with someone new the first few times I can get hard but won'tstay hard for long. II'm guessing it's nerves and being worried I'm not going to be able to please her. It really is a shitty first impression but with me it usually passes after the 5th or 6th time. What helps me is I jerk off right before I meet up with her. That 15 to 20 minutes after makes me not even think about sex for a while. Then when the time comes I can go hours. So like someone else said it's psychological.

Yes 1St put on a ******** or like strippers use a elastic band 2nd master bate when you first get up in the morning we all have musual memory built into us 3rd Don't overthink it just do it the best way you no how to 4th smack her legs to warm her up5th Hold Your Breath Every 3rd Time The presure Will Increase Slowly And finally Don't Forget The Sexual Experience That Really Turn You On And Let It Happen ACKTUMINALLY It's Like Riding A Bike

Massage her, use some type of lavender oil etc, explore her body, take your time, when the time comes **** her slowly don't go "megarabbit" on her, slowly lick her until she comes after that put a pillow under her pelvis and penetrate her until you come, thats it, i do this 1 time a week, sometimes 2 usually on fridays, she's happy for the rest of the week no problems and that makes me feel good. Tryit. NOTE give her some booze that will help her with her negative thoughts of you not getting hard.

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Chemistry can play a role in the scheme of things. Ferimones! Undetected can affect the host. Your body's natural chemistry may subconsciously have no connection for this woman. Women can fake "attraction" you being 18 it's disturbing on her end to why she even enteraining the idea, the shallow nature we have as humans differ in gender. Her life may be a downhill travel with exxtra baggage along with it, so she can be "faking" it all, in- turn your subconscious mind is picking up on it. This can cause a lack of desire, the ferimones are released and send out a signal to your sub-mind hey, im wasting my time. Hence the shortened erection time just fess up she's not the one your sexually designed to function with..stop forcing it you'll find other partners who better fit the task.

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