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Why is it that any guy would be the green monster when his chick is being hit on by another guy?

Ok my fiance is up in Pitts., PA, visiting his parents and getting training from his dad, so right now we are talking on the phone. (btw i do miss him alot.)

But when me and my mom when to dinner at "Chili's" there was a waiter from Peru that was flirting w/me and talking to mom & me. So he said i was beautiful. That all Texas women are. (of course.)

So i made the mistake of telling my fiance & now it is Sunday & he is still talking about the Peruvian waiter and making fun of him in a "ha-ha" sort of way. Which i don't mind. But i would ask him Q's but then he would go back to laughing at the Peruvian guy. He wouldn't stop so then he apologized.

Why is that the guy that is in love with me that is NOT with me right now would be the green monster aka envious & jealous. He did mention he had competition. He wants to protect me no matter what. But when he kept on talking about it got on my nerves. I don't understand why guys are like that. Please help and tell me to better understand.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    honestly i dont unserstand either...but what i usually tell my bf is to drop it...its old news.....im with you and thats all that matters....plus its kinda annoying! tell him how you feel.

  • 1 decade ago

    as for your question:.

    your man loves you. that's why he's jealous.. he thinks your too beautiful that if a guy/gal hits on you, he'd get jealous cause if they had you, he'd want you for himself..

    example: a girl named Candice saw this Fighting game she loved at the store....Next day She sees her Friend Donna playing that game (Donna bought it), so Candice is Jealous cause she loves that game so much that she has to have it.

    Just like your finance, He loves you so much that He has to have you for himself.

    both guys and gals are like that... doesn't matter what gender you are, they both get competitive, envy on the same things....

    not all guys are like that . and not all ladies are like that...

  • 1 decade ago

    ok! That is why I think u dont talk about this things( relationships or flirting ) another guy to ur guy.. Just as u wouldnt talk about ur personal life in details to ur parents.... If they happen to no or find out & wish to complain or comment ok! that's fine,but u have to always zip ur mouth on things like that 4 them to ask or figure it out. Take care &bye

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