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Anonymous asked in Society & CultureReligion & Spirituality · 1 decade ago

Losing Virginity?

Is it OK to be married to a man who lost their virginity to something that isn't a vagine, like if they lost their virginity to something mechanical, or an animal or a pool suction thing (those things on the side of the pool that if you put your hand up to it either pushes out water and/or sucks your hand in)? Christian view please!

Update:

I mean vagina, and you know what I mean. I guess you could say someone who lost their virginity to a vagina lost their virginity to a woman...

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    Pool suction? are you serious? LOL!!!

    on a more serious note, loss of virginity implies penetration between a man and woman.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Not sure whether you are a woman asking about a potential husband, or the potential husband who stuck his junk in a suction pump????

    Despite what you have heard from the CHRISTIANS (who seem to be woefully lacking in sex education).....when a man masturbates with a mechanical object (pool suction, vacuum cleaner suction) he has not lost his "virginity"....but Christians who think a man does NOT lose his virginity when he engages in sex with a female animal are too ridiculous to countenance. Just what the hell do they think VIRGINITY IS when it cannot be lost through BESTIALITY???? If a man can only lose his VIRGINITY with a woman, does that mean that all gay men are still VIRGINS even after having sex with each other????

    Phew...no wonder they are fighting so hard to keep SEX EDUCATION out of the schools!!!!

  • Losing your virginity is not the same as marriage. So, just because a man has masturbated or has been sexually active in some way does not mean that he can't marry - or that he is ineligible for marriage if your religion states that one cannot marry another who has been divorced on any grounds other than adultery.

    The caution is whether someone has become so conditioned by sex without a partner that he/she is unwilling or unable to relate to sex as a mutually pleasurable experience. Porn and self-gratification can make people sexually self-absorbed. Not fun to be married to someone who only thinks of his own needs.

    If you're really considering marriage and you have concerns, I'd suggest you both sit down and talk to someone you both trust - preferable in premarital counseling.

  • 1 decade ago

    You can't lose your virginity to a pool pump thingy or a bottle, you can lose your virginity with another human being :S

    I'm not Christian but the bible tells you to stone your wife if she isn't a virgin when you marry her. Don't know about husbands though.

    Deuterenomy 22:20-1

    "If, however, the charge is true and no proof of the girl’s virginity can be found, she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death. She has done a disgraceful thing in Israel by being promiscuous while still in her father’s house."

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  • 1 decade ago

    Let me just say, as a precautionary warning, that pool suction openings are NOT good "targets of opportunity" for the, aaah, male member.

    Remember, please, that the human penis is basically a deflated ballon . . . the pressure differential will cause it to expand to fill the opening *completely.* Tightly, in fact.

    In other words . . . you'll get stuck. Ask any metropolitan paramedic or fireman. Those who haven't *personally* rescued someone . . . will have heard the stories.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Technically, a man is still a virgin until he has actual sexual intercourse with another human being.

    Pool gadgets, animals, or suction cups do not count as having taken a man's virginity. Only another human being can do that.

    I have to agree with one answerer who said that this is by far the strangest question ever seen on this forum.

    Well, I hope my answer helps you anyway. Best wishes.

  • 1 decade ago

    You can masturbate with a mechanical thingy, or with a pool drain (but watch it you can lose your manhood that way!) but you can't lose your virginity - that only happens between a man and a woman, so what you are saying is all wrong.

  • Looney
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Dude... really? Well, ummm. Wow. As long as they aren't still doing this.... I guess so. The whole animals thing... might want to have the person checked for interesting diseases...

    Why am I even answering this..... Oh well, two points is two points...

    Or, if this is made up..... pppbbbbbtttt.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Stay away from the pool suction things...you can get hurt...or stuck and the fire department will have to come get you out...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    pool suction thing? I never tried that, but only, I'll admit, because I never thought of it.

    I think my vacuum cleaner would get jelous though, we have something special.

    (((vagine.)))

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