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Need some advice to deal with son father girlfriend?
My oldest son dad girlfriend been emailing me. I know she engaged to him and about to get married. She think she need to know how my son is doing and when they get to see him and why I am keeping him away. First of all. She had a baby by him and she doesn't get the point. His father doesn't care about my son. because he never called to check up on him or even asking for him. It her doing it all the time. First of I been doing the driving and the gas. They live an hour away. I shouldn't have to do the driving and he shouls come here to get him or pay for the gas. And second of all the last time my son was there with him. My son came home with a bruise on his butt and my son told me that his father smack him on the butt hard where the bruise was at. I believe my son and he never lies to me at all. And I asked them about the bruise it seem like they were lieing to me. His father doesn't seem to care at times about his son. He been in and out of his life and it was his choice not me.
Also couple of years ago. We had court he didn't look at me or talk to me to ask how his son was doing or can see him. His answer was because his girlfriend was there and that he didn't want to lose her. It seem that his girlfriend more important and even his baby girl is has well. He hasn't paid child support for years. I think his father should be asking about his son and then his girlfriend. And I tell my son to call his girlfriend by her name. Not mommy. He needs to call me only mommy and also I took care of my son since the day he was born myself and he wasn;t around.
I did call children service when the bruise but children service wouldn't do anything about it and not enough evidance has well. Also his girlfriend after she had his baby she went crazy has well.
6 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Well I have had some experiences in this area. First my son is 13 but to finally get the point across to his no child support paying rear, I gave my son to his father for one year so they can bond. If your ex spanked his behind that's why child services did nothing ( it was the behind , That's Law.) You should allow the Stepmother to car for your son. She wants the baby to know it's sibling. But let your son spend time this summer and after the results of that experience put your rules down. After all you gave time away from your child to attempt civil child share.
Source(s): self - MessykattLv 71 decade ago
Not sure what the question is in all this.
If the father hasn't been paying any support, is he in violation of a court order or did you just not ask for it?
How old is your son? Does he want to visit them? If he's old enough it should be his choice.
If he's still just a kid and you don't want this woman harassing you, simply use your mail software to bounce her mails to you. If she calls, tell the father to get her to stop or you're hiring an attorney and going after him for child support.
- 1 decade ago
Yuck they suck. But, try to remember that it's best for your son to have some sort of relationship with his dad. (Unless you really think he's abusing the kid.)
But you don't have to be a doormat. Tell the dad that it's his responsibility to come get the kid if he wants to see him. Tell the girlfriend that you feel it's inappropriate for her to be the go between rather than the father. Politely.
- 1 decade ago
u should call child services on him for beaten your son and make him pay child support
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- 1 decade ago
u should call child services on him for beaten your son and make him pay child support indeed
- ?Lv 45 years ago
you and he might desire to be civil for the youngster's sake you texting to ensure he have been given homestead ok became a gf flow (no longer an ex) i think of you'll be able to desire to drop attempting to be pals jointly with your ex and flow on i think of you'll be able to desire to concentration on your destiny and not lots what she says or does - its none of your business enterprise - do you get that?
