if a guy is using you and you are doing the same to him does that cancel it out?

He uses you, you use him.....yes, it cancels out

Are you looking to use him or condemn him for insuring he can use you again.

If you can be friends and get together like that, it can be easy and drama-free the way everyone wishes sex was. But if you're looking for ulterior motives in a guy who you openly admit is using you and vice-versa, it's a whole new ballgame and someone's going to get hurt.

It's all good till one of you wants more than the other

weird how it all works but I am of the belief the sexual act is not only a very emotional physical act but also affects you psychologically. Irrespective of the "using" part as you say you will begin to form a closer psychological or emotional bond to this person and them to you. Deny it if you will but generally in the use part of the equation it is only about physical contact. The small talk stuff indicates otherwise.

i'd say yes. if you only want him for sex and don't mind that he feels the same it is on the level. and it's good he calls you babe i guess because after all you just had sex. maybe he does want to do it with you again.

What you are doing must bother you to some extent or you wouldn't be asking our opinions to try and validate what the two of you are doing. Does that fact that you are both using each other cancel each other out? Naw, it just makes you both losers. But hey, if you are both fine with it, who am I to judge?

sure it's cool as long as you both know the rule.

And use protection against STD.

And use protection against pregnancy.

And are not in a situation where he can damage your reputation.

Using words like babe, dear, hon, etc means your name is not important/you are not important- easy come, easy go.

It works as long as it works for both of you.

If you ever get confused and think this guy will come through for you about anything else, be prepared for a surprise. Maybe he will, and maybe he'll go, who are YOU?

if all you want is sex from him then why should anything else bother you like calling you babe. what should he call you hey working girl. i dont understand what you mean by cancel it out ?.

if you like being used and you like using people go forward and do you thing.

maybe he's calling you babe cause he thinks your sexy, and there is nothing wrong with using each other for sex so long as the 2 of you know it and are ok with it

Mutual using is OK, cuz no one will get hurt when or however it ends.

Calling you Babe tells you he calls every woman that, or thinks it.....and it's a complete disrespect signal.

Use Bozo all you want, butt...that makes YOU a BOZOETTE !!!

well obviously you are both attracted to eachother , so u like eachopther in some way or form but yea if you both havnt talked about relationship or being together and just hook up its obvious you both have your sights just on messing around

hmm it sounds mutual!! I think the babe thing, is just him being a typical male, I wouldn't look to much into it!! Just make sure that he knows where you stand, and he knows where you stand.. so there isn't confusion later on down the road!