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How many times has the same person broken your heart?
I've got over 4 years of heart breaks, all from the same man. I loved him very much and he hurt me like hell yet I always accepted him back with open arms. I'm sending out a hug tonight to all those people who were scarred by a person they truly loved.
18 Answers
- ~bobbi~Lv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
Once should be enough. Twice means run away and never look back!!!!
I did this several times with my ex. You are NOT wanting HIM back, you are wanting a relationship. Don't go back!!!!
- conservativegirlLv 51 decade ago
Hugs right back to you sweetie! I've been married for 20 years and thankfully my husband has never broken my heart! But I was in a relationship for 5 years before I met my husband and it was nothing but heart break after another...I do know what you're going through and feel your pain. I guess I just want you to know that not all men are like that. Some are capable of such tremendous love. Good Luck to You and your broken heart. :)
- 1 decade ago
I have been dating the same guy for 5 years, we always end up breaking up after some months. He is a good guy, he just has communication problems, and had some maturing to do. After a particularly rough period, he finally wised up as to how he was destroying things, we got into counseling, and now he's paying for an engagement ring.
- 1 decade ago
I don't know but none of us are perfect and sometimes it takes to get her heart broken to become a stronger person, and if you stick with the person and have faith that things will get better then the outcome will be worth it. Am now married to him and he treats me better than ever bc I trusted in God to help or relationship. I have also broken his heart as well, but this as we know is called true love!
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- Helen W.Lv 71 decade ago
I've had my heart broken a few times, but never more than once by the same person. Once a victim, twice a volunteer, I always say.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I suppose you could feel sorry for all of us that are like you or you could pick yourself up and understand that you don't deserve that. my dad used to always say, " If you fool me once shame on you; if you fool me twice- shame on me." (That goes for "hurt' too.) Really i don't know what caused your heartaches but I hope that you will have many happy days filled with laughter and love and that the only pain you ever feel with be unintentually there. Best wishes.
Light & Love,
- 1 decade ago
Please, please, start loving yourself. Stop being his door mat. you can harm your health (permanently) by continuing to allow him to break your heart. I know you love him, but he doesn't love you the same way, no matter what he says. If he did, he would not continue to break your heart. That's not true love.
If you woke up in the morning, looked in the mirror and said to your self; "self, I really love you," then later in the day, you stuck a knife into your heart and twisted it, would that be a description of love to you?
- Indya MLv 51 decade ago
Well, my husband left me and our children for a simpler life. He said he no longer wanted the responsibility or the accountability it took to be a husband or a father. So......whenever I see him or hear his voice my heart breaks all over again.
- 1 decade ago
I've lost count of how many times the same guy has rejected me. Yeah I was destroyed every time he did this