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Can I PLEASE get some answers to my question?

There is this girl whom I THINK likes me. We have never really spoken (Had class together months ago, I know for sure she liked me then at least for awhile, I silently told her I wasn't interested then), but about ~50% of the time she will always give me a glance, ~50% nothing at all, and if I am on a stand still and she is as well, this girl WILL NOT take her eyes off of me until I notice or get very near. The thing is I never ever look at her, I act like she is just non-existant, but she must be stupid to not know I havn’t had my eyes on her at least a few times, but no where near as much as her. She has cut in front of me deliberately a few times last months back and is showing signs like that.

I can tell she is really really shy...she has few friends and I have never once seen her speak to a guy, and is quite in class (Surprises me because of how gorgeous she is...) and that may explain why she hasn't approached me yet. I am more shy then she is, but only to approach.

Basically I will sweep her off her feet just if I can get her to at least start regularly speaking to me, I dont need to know how to talk to her, just how to get her to approach me or know I am interested too without coming off like a creep! Im really bad at the cold approaches.

SO THE QUESTION IS:

A. Does she like me based on her actions I stated above?

B. If you are also a shy girl is this similar to what you would want me to do?

C. How can I show her I am interested without actually saying anything, I know approuching MAY be the only way…though. But just let me know ANY I mean ANY tactics I could use here! I want to show her I am interested too.

BTW I am 17, she is 16 and one grade lower then I.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You have posted this question before. Must mean no answers were received. Sorry about that.

    Okay, yes, this gorgeous, quiet babe is interested in you!

    But if you continue to pussy foot around, some jock is gonna give her that smooth talk and you are going to be left in the dust.

    Shy, nope. Don't believe that about either one of you. Afraid that if you say anything that you will be rejected, now that is both of you!

    Take a shower tonight...and another one tomorrow morning, even if that means that you have to get up earlier.

    Use deodorant under your arms and a faint scent cologne patted gently on your face. Nothing heavy...not too much.

    Pick out a comfy, yet "dress" pair of jeans and a shirt which has no slogan or advertisement on it.

    Now you smell clean, pleasant, and you look good. In a few months you will be a man, no longer a boy. Remember that. Think, man. Eat, man. Sleep, man. Get what I'm saying?

    Creeps oogle and hold their heads down cause they are just boys. Men, on the other hand, have voices.

    Now go to school and when she not engaged in a conversation with someone else, draw up your man and walk over at a medium rate and firmly, yet gently, extend your right hand and simply say, "Hi, I'm (your name)" and nothing more.

    Women do want equal pay for equal work, but when it comes to their man, the office stuff is out. When a man opens the door for me, he makes me feel special. When a man curbs his desire to look at other girls when he is with me, he allows me to relax and not feel like he is comparing me to other gals and looking for someone better. A small piece of paper with a hand drawn smiley face melts my heart. Yet if I receive too many of them I may feel like my space is being crowded.

    Guys prefer to have other men sit next to them as opposed to across from them. Gals feel more comfortable meeting a guy "across" from them, rather than to one side or the other.

    Just like guys, gals become anxious after meeting a guy, especially one that they have had their eyes on. So, after you meet her, don't leave her wondering for days about whether or not you like her. A warm smile the next time you see her will allow both of you to relax. So, be prepared for her return smile.

    You don't have to go slow, yet neither should you run. Keep you first dates public...bowling, skating, bicycling, so that you do not make her feel like all you want to do is be alone and grope her. So, in the presence of a lady, curb your hormones.

    We ladies so enjoy being respected as ladies. A gentleman, a gentle man, who is quietly strong, respectful, truthful and kind is who we are all looking for.

    Sounds like you meet the bill.

  • 1 decade ago

    You've met a shy girl and you want her to approach you?

    You want to show you are interested without opening your mouth?

    You are expecting too much from her. Instead, starting expecting more from yourself.

    What do you have to lose by starting a conversation with her? If she's NOT interested you will find out quickly so you can quit obsessing about the whole situation. If she is interested, it might be the beginning of something really nice.

    Ask her a question that cannot be answered with a simple yes or no. Something simple. Favorite music, movies, books, etc. Or, tell her you are trying to decide on some classes for next year...who is her favorite science teacher..or best art class, etc. Then ask her to tell you why?

    People love to talk about themselves. The more she talks, the more you will learn about her and the more things you will have to say to teach other!

    Good luck.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I was ridiculously shy in high school so I think I can answer your questions.

    A. I think she does probably like you. The 50% of the time that she doesn't glance at you - my guess is that she's completely aware of you whether she's looking at you or not. Pointedly not looking at someone is almost like staring at them.

    B & C. I would want you to start with saying Hi to me when we pass in the hall. Just a quick Hi, this would let her know that you know she's alive and want to talk to her. Hopefully this small, quick approach won't be to overwhelming for you but will also be enough to let her know you like her. After a week or two of saying Hi, if she hasn't said something more to you perhaps you could say a little something more to her.

    I remember once when I was 18 a boy I really liked told me he liked me a lot and I just didn't know what to say in return so it was disasterous. I sort of stammered out a Thank you and stood there like an idiot. Finally he asked me if I'd seen a new movie that was out and I love movies so it gave us a topic of conversation. We went on to talk about what music we liked and he asked me to a concert that was coming.

    So don't hit her with big declarations of your affection, just take it easy and slow. Find something neutral that you can just talk about without any pressure. A class you both have, movies, music, etc. Give yourself and her a break and remember to breath, relax and take it slow.

  • 1 decade ago

    First off, "How can I show her I am interested without actually saying anything", not going to work. You HAVE to actually start, I don't know, TALKING to her. It's not that hard. Talk about some common interests you two may have. For example, if she likes The Beatles, discuss your favorite album. It might even help to disagree with her on stuff like that, women like it when you don't totally agree with them on "little things." Just keep it simple and have low expectations.

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  • 1 decade ago

    A. Probably. It's impossible to tell for certain, girls are confusing.

    B. N/A

    C. Well, you'll have to talk to her to let her know that you're interested, but you probably won't have to tell her directly for a while. Try just smiling at her when you catch her looking at her. Try talking to her when you see her. Don't do or say anything that you wouldn't normally do, though.

  • 1 decade ago

    just say 'hi' a couple times if you pass by and try to start a small conversation. Maybe about how you don't see her much.

    end with giving her your e-dress.

    If you really don't want to approach her, just find out where her locker is and slip in your e-dress or put it on a post-it note and place it on her book when she's not looking.

    you don't even have to write your name.(some girl's love it when guys are mysterious) ....@yahoo.ca please e-me! or something like that.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    A. I think she does like you A LOT but is too shy to tell you.

    B. Yes! she is DYEING for you to say something.

    C. Love Letter- Just say you were thinking of her..

    or..this really works buy a single rose and when you see her

    simply say "for you". She'll start talking wondering why you

    your so sweet then just say because you were thinking of her

    or because she so beautifil..

    Good Luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    a. yes ...she likes u

    b.well some times shy girls dont take hints very well

    c.now thats kinda difucult .like i said if she is shy as u said the only thing might be approuching her ...i wish i could give u more ..send a card if u dont want to take to her ..make it a funny one

  • Gwen H
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I think she likes you but she is too shy

    I think u should strike up a converstation with her or write her a note

    Start looking at her smile and flirt if u get a chance to talk to her

  • 1 decade ago

    All of the above, GO FOR IT!!!.....whats the worst that can happen? Just go up to her and tell her exactly how you feel, it will show honesty and that it attractive to women.

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