Any advice is appretiated.?

Take a deep, slow, breath. Practice your deep, slow, breathing tonight. Think of a phrase you can repeat to yourself again and again that is positive and encouraging to you (i.e. "Soar like an eagle...") Seriously. I mean this woman is a piece of work, but let tomorrow night be about the kids. Rise above...and if she tries anything, take a deep breath. Look at your kids, and smile. Then just talk to your kids or husband. Don't acknowledge her with words or action. If you need to, step away and go to the bathroom for an adult time-out, do your deep breathing, and then come back. If you don't respond to her, she'll look like an *ss. Also, don't confront her about anything tomorrow night; you haven't done anything wrong so you don't need to defend yourself. Just focus on the kids. And enjoy the play!

The first answer is correct. tomorrow is about the kids and you will have to act as if. She has the problem not you. You be the bigger person.

Next month Iwill need to take my own advice, i have been invited to a wedding that will be at a yacht club where my ex's

boat is and I was told my ex best friend was also invited to the wedding. Ex and ex...get it..

Good Luck tomorrow..I'll be rooting for you.

ok... first what is dh, bd, bm, ...... and this lady is obviously jealous of you and she knows that u let her get to you WHEN U SHOULDNT.... she is NOBODY! nobody at all ... u have what she wants (her baby daddy) and he does not WANT her... so in knowing this you should be smiling on the inside in knowing that this woman is so envious of you! She thinks about you all day .. thinks of ways to make u miserable... I would be FLATTERED if someone thought about me all day... every time that I see her I would be ALL over my husband and extremely nice to her children.. and I would let my husband know exactly why I am acting the way that I am... I would kill that b!t%* with kindness! I bet you could get to her WAAAAAY WORSE THAN SHE GETS TO YOU! u should just stand back and laugh at her ignorance!

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well you're obviously doing a great job because she is so jealous and that's what you need to remember. My stepdaughter lives with my hubby and myself and i have a son and 1 on the way, her mother is constantly trying to interfere in my life and yes tries to give the assumption she and my hubby are together and she raises the child but i just laugh these days, it used to upset me but then i realised she is soo jealous, i am living the life she could've had if she was mature enough to handle it. haha to her and haha to your husbands ex because they are lonely, immature cows and you are better than her by a million.

Your DH needs to talk to her, and if she hangs up, he needs to take her to court to listen. (I assume she has partial custody.) Tomorrow, just grin and bear it and be there for the kids and just ignore her. Be better than she is and just smile and kill her with kindness.

It's very hard, and I feel for you.

There isn't much you can really do about it.

What goes around from this evil person, will undobutedly, eventually, come around back to her. Count on it.