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My room mate recently used my account to help himself gain points while I was out of the house. he knew the password to my e-mail because I've called him to have him check for important e-mails before and did'nt want to change my password because it was the name of my dead sister. I have since changed my password to a 14 digit phone card number I had for a few wwks in high school and dought he could figure it out now as long as I dont tell him. I dont want to report him because he has threatend me about kicking me out and there is the possibility that they might delete my account for being involved and I would be devistated and I dont want to report him every chance I get and sink to his level of trolling. I'm so angry and feel so violated. I also found out he was reading my e-mail because he knew who had writen me that day what do I do?

Foolish Pleasure Hates STUPID · Accepted Answer

Unfortunately, there's not much you can do at this point.  It's live and learn.  Good idea about changing your password, though.  And I think I'd definitely let him know you are aware of what he did.

j153e · Answer

1.  You feel "violated."  Correct.

2.  You fear "being kicked out;" why?  Does he hold some kind of house power?

3.  If so, how difficult is it to move, to find a "better place," etc.?

4.  Until you are choosing such an option, forgive your roommate's actions, to God (don't bother telling your roommate).  In other words, you are "letting God know" you've been "violated," that a wrong has been done, and you're nonetheless moving on, leaving the Justice to God.  This frees you, somewhat, emotionally and mentally, to move on.

5.  Good that you are protecting yourself, less inappropriately trusting, and so on.

radiowwww · Answer

I got the impression a long time ago, my hose was bugged, and my catr was bugged, and my head was bugged, and so on. I began to live as if thuis was corect , even whether or not it was true. I learned from this experience to allow  eavesdroppers, snoopers  etc, to provide me with an audience for my imagination. They have no clue how strange the truth really is.

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