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Break up with CRAZYY gf??

My girlfriend snuck into my room this weekend, cleaned and organized my room, bought me $100 of blankets, pillows, and towels.

But, I don't like her that much. I'm just not that into her and don't want such a serious relationship. How do I say no to the gifts????

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Ok this girl sounds a lot like me so I know what she's thinking when she's doing these things for you. She sounds she enjoys taking care of her man and wants to make you happy.

    If you can't handle that, think she's being "crazy", aren't that into her, AND aren't ready for such a serious relationship then you need to figure out how to say no to the relationship and not the gifts.

  • 1 decade ago

    Eww. I don't blame you for feeling that way. In one sense, it sounds nice - but it is really creepy, overbearing and intrusive, in the other sense. And uck - she's not your mommy. Who the heck wants somebody else "organizing" your stuff? Some of it is probably private, and none of it is really her business. It's like she's trying to own you. I would would consider dumping her, since you are not that into her. That is frightening.

    Did you use the bedding? Or - did she take away/toss your old stuff, so you are stuck with the new stuff or you have nothing? If you still have the old stuff, I would pack up the new and tell her you are refusing it. Either way, I would tell her, that you know she meant well, but it was really over the top and struck you absolutely the wrong way, that she really had no business coming in and doing that, that you think she is way more serious about this relationship than you, and she needs to learn to respect other peoples' independence.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    next time she gets u sumthing, be like

    kk u dont have to do that, really. REALLY. haha, seriously i feel sort of bad and stuff so dnot get me anything else, k? there gonna get all old since i probably wont be able to go through these bed sheets and my other ones that fast, and i'm not looking for a really serious relationship right now, k? k, good. but thanks anyways.

    then kiss her fastly on the lips

  • 1 decade ago

    Just say sorry I can't take this and express to her how you feel. and see if you can work something out where the relationship isn't as serious.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well you can say that you appreciate what shes done but your not interested in a relationship with her so she might as well take the gifts back!

  • 1 decade ago

    lol. Tell her next time she sneaks into your room, she should check out your yahoo answers questions you've posted on your computer....lol. Let her read it! Haha. That's mean but kinda funny.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    say im sorry but i dont feel the say waya nd i dont feel like im ready for a real relationship and i cant accept these gifts BUT BOTTEM LINE TELL THE TRUTH!!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just tell her that you like her, but you're not that serious. Break it to her lightly, because she obviously wants a relationship.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just tell her that you don't need the gifts anymore because they will get all dusty if you dont use them. Hope this helped.

  • 1 decade ago

    Call the police and have her arrested for burglary.

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