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I have a general confllict with my close friend. I'm not really sure what it is though. I just get bothered by him when he does certain stuff, but i don't know how to respond to it without offending him.

Example, he hits me jokingly telling me to do something and I don't want to do it... I don't want to make a big deal out of it by saying, "I don't like it when you hit me" or something like that. How can I deal with those sorts of things without being socially awkward???

I'm trying out to be a soccer referee for peers (18-25) at my school. I'm scared that I won't make a good referee. I'm generally not a confident person, and I'm scared I won't be able to handle gray zones or resolve conflicts.

Do I exactly follow the rulebook or let it slide?

What if they start disagreeing with my, how do i discipline them?

Help me have the confidence to deal with these situations!

I'm trying out to be a soccer referee for peers (18-25) at my school. I'm scared that I won't make a good referee. I'm generally not a confident person, and I'm scared I won't be able to handle gray zones or resolve conflicts.

Do I exactly follow the rulebook or let it slide?

What if they start disagreeing with my, how do i discipline them?

Help me have the confidence to deal with these situations!

I'm trying out to be a soccer referee for peers (18-25) at my school. I'm scared that I won't make a good referee. I'm generally not a confident person, and I'm scared I won't be able to handle gray zones or resolve conflicts.

Do I exactly follow the rulebook or let it slide?

What if they start disagreeing with my, how do i discipline them?

Help me have the confidence to deal with these situations!

My girlfriend snuck into my room this weekend, cleaned and organized my room, bought me $100 of blankets, pillows, and towels.

But, I don't like her that much. I'm just not that into her and don't want such a serious relationship. How do I say no to the gifts????

Over the weekend my girlfriend did a really nice gesture. She cleaned my room, organized my stuff for 4 hours, and bought me new bedding, new towels, and new pillows.

But, the thing is I want to break up with her. I'm not as interested in her as she is in me. The nice stuff is just too much, I just don't feel that way about her. How do I say no to the stuff???

Over the weekend my girlfriend did a really nice gesture. She cleaned my room, organized my stuff for 4 hours, and bought me new bedding, new towels, and new pillows.

But, the thing is I want to break up with her. I'm not as interested in her as she is in me. The nice stuff is just too much, I just don't feel that way about her. How do I say no to the stuff???

Whenever I'm kissing, I'm always self-conscious and thinking about how I'm kissing, and thinking about how I'm not a good kisser compared to my gf. I know it's ridiculous, but it's what I think

I need to get outside of my head. Can anyone relate?? What should I do??

Hey,

So I'm meeting this girl tomorrow, we're going to go bowling. She talked trash about how she's going to beat me and I'm kind of upset because I suck at bowling and what if she beats me. I'm a shitty trash talker and I dunno, it's just pretty embarrassing that a girl would be better than me at that. How can I be cool after losing?

So, there's a girl that's definitely interested in me. She's really cute and I like her, but I wonder, why is this girl interested in me...

I always act like a fool around her, nervous, say stupid comments to which she gets confused and goes, "huh", "uhh, what"... She's been pursuing me for weeks. This week, we hung out 2 times 1on1 staying up really late talking in the car and I still haven't made a move on her

Why does she still like me and want to hang out with me? And what should I do?

So, this girl's definitely interested in me. She's really cute and I like her, but I wonder why is this girl interested in me...

I always act like a fool around her, nervous, say stupid comments to which she gets confused and goes, "huh", "uhh, what"... She's been pursuing me for weeks. This week, we hung out 2 times 1on1 staying up really late talking in the car and I still haven't made a move on her, I mean, how can she put up with that?

Why does she still like me and want to hang out with me? And what should I do?

So, this girl's definitely interested in me. She's really cute and I like her, but I wonder, why is this girl interested in me...

I always act like a fool around her, nervous, say stupid comments to which she gets confused and goes, "huh", "uhh, what"... She's been pursuing me for weeks. This week, we hung out 2 times 1on1 staying up really late talking in the car and I still haven't made a move on her

Why does she still like me and want to hang out with me? And what should I do?

So I can tell this girl is into me. And I think she's pretty cool and hot, so I'm into her also. We hang out with other people around, have a good time, and we definitely have a connection. So obviously, the next step is to talk 1 on 1.

But the problem is I get really nervous talking to her 1 on 1. I always feel like I'm running out of things to say, and I can't keep up the conversation at such a "fun" level. So, basically I run away, so the conversation is not too long and it doesn't get too shitty.

What can I do in this situation??... It happens to me every time, with every girl I like.

A lot of times it'll cause me to lose games. Anyone have any suggestions to not do this?

I just always play worse. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to not mess up when I'm about to win a game?

I hate losing because I want to beat my friend. But when I win I don't feel all that great, just a little satisfied if anything.

This has perplexed me for a while on a philosophical level, but recently it has directly affected me. I���ve been playing a fighting video game (Super Smash Bros on N64) with a friend pretty intensely for some months. Naturally, the skill level changes from time to time, he's good and wins all the time, I become good and win, etc etc. I hate losing to him, especially after a few times in a row; but then when I win I just feel moderately good, and after a few wins in a row I very quickly become bored with winning.

“What’s the problem?” you ask. Well, I agonize over losing. And I tend to lose more often because I am unenthusiastic about winning. Therefore the majority of the time I am feeling negative. 1) Why agonize if I don’t care about reward: winning? 2) How can I enjoy winning in general (not just one win here and there)? 3) Arggh, what do I really want!?

I hate losing because I want to beat my friend. But when I win I don't feel all that great, just a little satisfied if anything.

This has perplexed me for a while on a philosophical level, but recently it has directly affected me. I’ve been playing a fighting video game (Super Smash Bros on N64) with a friend pretty intensely for some months. Naturally the skill level changes from time to time, he's good and wins all the time, I become good and win, etc etc. I hate losing to him, especially after a few times in a row; but then when I win I just feel moderately good, and after a few wins in a row I very quickly become bored with winning.

“What’s the problem?” you ask. Well, I agonize over losing. And I tend to lose more often because I am unenthusiastic about winning. Therefore the majority of the time I am feeling negative. 1) Why agonize if I don’t care about reward: winning? 2) How can I enjoy winning in general (not just one win here and there)? 3) Arggh, what do I really want!?

I hate losing because I want to win. But then when I win I don't feel all that great, just a little bit satisfied if anything.

This has perplexed me for a while on a philosophical level, but recently it has directly affected me. I’ve been playing a fighting video game (Super Smash Bros on N64) with a friend pretty intensely for some months. Naturally, the skill level changes from time to time, he's good and wins all the time, I become good and win, etc etc. I hate losing to him, especially after a few times in a row; but then when I win I just feel moderately good, and after a few wins in a row I very quickly become bored with winning.

“What’s the problem?” you ask. Well, I agonize over losing. And I tend to lose more often because I am unenthusiastic about winning. Therefore the majority of the time I am feeling negative. 1) Why agonize if I don’t care about reward: winning? 2) How can I enjoy winning in general (not just one win here and there)? 3) Arggh, what do I really want!?